I appreciate your honesty about your feelings, and I was quite angry too, everytime I heard another vet's story following the Fonda summit with NV leaders. I couldn't see the protesters POV, either, but I know it was shared by many Americans and cut across every age bracket amongst people over the age of accountability.
I've also seen bitter Viet Nam vets in wheelchairs who gave up everything they had--their futures, their fellow servicemen's day-to-day camaraderie, and future security for a life made less pleasant by the John Kerrys of glib and unpleasant speech about events they never had any part of, but were blamed by the militant anti-war organization that closed ranks against all the soldiers who gave everything they had, now press targets for character assassination.
The trouble with both sides shooting each other's feet endlessly, is that everybody concerned grows shorter, but the problems associated with failure to stand one's ground is that a real enemy has access to more kills than those who successfully thwart killers with agendas.
War lives on in the broken hearted. I hate to see people break our veterans' hearts. My mother lived through world war II when she was young. She got mad when she thought about how war took America's best men and killed them. But the man she married came home with a drawer full of honors, metals, and certificates for bravery under fire. She stood by him her whole life, good and bad.
Will we have a future war fought because we elected men to defend us who are certain the worst thing you can do is fight, which includes fighting back. I just don't know what will come of this appeasement business. Appeasement was used to destroy Troy.