Any guy who is normal would jerk off instead of ******* someone ugly
Plus I would feel bad because after sex I would kick her out immediately
Someone attractive gets to stay around and chill
Nobody goes out looking for ugly. But we have ALL done ugly. I used to call it a "desperation ****." Sometimes you just need a good hummer and to bang someone.
Maybe you just don't have much of a sex drive. Is that it? If not, and you just jack constantly, then I would say that you are not "normal".
To quote ZZ Top, "It's better to have it than to need it a lot."
No sex is better than sex with a monster
Well, it is true that some bitches are just so hideous that you would not even poke them with your worst enemy's dick.
I had a pretty good friend one time who I genuinely liked. We were in the same line of work. She would periodically visit me at my office or call me on the telephone to chat. In almost every way she would have been an excellent companion for me. However, physically she was a troll. A lot of our contemporaries literally nicknamed her "the troll," I tried to think about doing her several times before concluding that I just could not go there. So I never went that direction. I could have, but just did not think that I could get it up and keep it up. I suffered from temporary visual impotence.
There is a comedy-scifi flick called The Man With Two Brains starting Steve Martin. The love of his life is a woman's brain that he communicates with through telepathy. They try to put her brain into a gorilla. Steve Martin walks over to the gorilla, looks it over and then says, "I can't **** a gorilla!" It is a hilarious scene.
Yes, physical attraction is important, but you still make compromises. It is a matter of degree. For example, I have a total crush on Gwen Stefani, and I have had it for years. She is hot as hell to me. I would TOTALLY do Gwen. Go down a step and there is Lady Gaga. Ugly face, but a very nice body. Definitely not my type, but still doable. Now, go down another step and you get Adele. Nice face, but puffy, and she is overweight. Thus, not my type and not particularly sexy. Would I do her even if she were not a famous person? Yeah, I would. Now let's descend even lower. Rosanne Barr: fat, old, obnoxious. Totally not sexy. Would I bang someone who looks like her? Nope. She is in the pig zone, in which regardless of the circumstances I just could not even get or maintain an erection.
My point is that you make compromises. Every man has him limits, of course. There is always a lot of room between top shelf ***** and flat, warm beer *****. You may be in the mood to drink Johhny Walker Black on the rocks, but all you can get is Cutty Sark, so you compromise and take the Cutty. Just because you cannot have the top shelf stuff does not mean that you go home without sipping some decent scotch.
With the bitches, you may not be able to get a model or actress to **** you, but there is A LOT of ***** out there between the good stuff and the hideous beasts.
Dude, if your cubicle girl is a hideous beast, then it is what it is. Leave her alone. But if not, then go for it notwithstanding her less than perfect looks.
Your snobbery is a self-defense mechanism. It is an excuse to not interact and thereby create a situation in which you may be rejected.
Are you a misogynist? Are you harboring a lot of anger directed at women? This happens after years of failure with women. It is not a good place to be at. If you are in this phase then you really need to talk to a therapist in order to explore your feelings.
The truth is that with your present attitude toward women things are not going to ever chance for the better for you.