That is an absurd view, as well as you have a strange habit of putting words/thoughts/beliefs into my head without having ever met me, or know anything whatsoever I believe or don't believe.
And that is intellectually dishonest.
I am not a judge of anyone, and neither is anyone else as long as that action doesn't harm another person.
I have gay friends, 2 gay nephews and my wife and I have a favorite restaurant that is owned by 2 lesbians that hire only trans/gay/lesbian servers. I have no issue with alternate lifestyles as long as no one else is harmed.
My only point has been about the flaw of saying something out of a written book is a "rule" (that was written by men) and then say this other part is not a rule... wait for it... because it is written by men.
That is a fallacy.