TBH, my rule is, I never hate the poster -- I don't actually know the poster as a real person in real life. When I shit post, it's because I hate the poster's ideas or thinking, but not the person (if that makes sense). IRL, I have friends and family members whose views are way fucken different than mine and we sometimes drink too much and spout off at each other over the holidays but we still take photos and dine out because politics is the ideas of a person, a person's experiences. But they're not the soul - that's completely different. Hard for me to explain.
I've insulted the fuck out of a lot of people here, but chances are, if we didn't talk politics, I'd fix their flat tire, or they would mine. Maybe I'm too idealistic.