For those of you who may have missed my prior posts, I have been an independent my entire life, (voting nearly 30 years now.) If one looks at my sig they'll note where I lay on various political metrics. In general I refer to myself as a capitalist classical liberal; I'm bisexual, pro-choice, national capitalistic.
If you are in the "political situation" where you've kind of always had to essentially make concessions about what you believe in when you vote this message probably applies to you. [EDIT - note, if you're a partisan hack, this post probably doesn't apply to you heh]
We need to talk about what just happened with the Kavanaugh thing; the /principle/ of it. The D's could have started privately investigating this Ford case in July - they could have saved both Ford and Kavanaugh from the vitriol of making this case public and gotten to the /truth/ without all the hyperbolic bullshit. They /intentionally/ chose to destroy the lives and families of two people /simply/ to retain control of the SCOTUS at best, at worst they did it simply to "resist" the president.
A bit of an aside on Trump here; regardless of if you happen to like Trumps politics, as reasonable non-partisan's we know that Trump was chosen by the people and that there was no vote interference or anything that makes his election invalid, even at best - arguing that there were Russian ad campaigns - folks make their choice without anyone forcing them into it. Even if we want to entertain that "Russian's mislead the people with false claims and lies" that is certainly nothing new in politics, and effectually no different than the misleading and lies told by our own politicians of their opponents. The people voted of their own volition and Trump won.
Back to the Kavanaugh thing. So I didn't particularly care if he made it onto the SCOTUS honestly. I'm not a "fan" of him, he's got some rulings in the past I do not like; for example, the Patriot Act, the NSA recording and collecting all those phone calls - I was never entirely satisfied with the argument that "national security" is a good enough reason to invade the privacy of innocent American's without reason and necessity, even if I do recognize that it was/did indeed catch/stop terrorists. It was kind of one of those border-line issues for me where I wasn't quite feeling that the ends justified the means.
That's kind of what I want to talk about with you though, that "the ends justifying the means" thing...
What we just witnessed was the destruction of some very fundamental principles of America; innocent until proven guilty, guilt my mere accusation, and a complete discard of logical "credibility" and the "ends" part, keeping SCOTUS power or resisting Trump or whatever the hell was motivating the D's to discard those principles, and those two peoples lives/honor/etc, quite simply does /not/ justify the means in any way, shape, or form.
I am literally sick to my stomach. This past year has shown the most ridiculous and disgusting display of partisan hackery I've ever witnessed. Worse, this time, it's not the bumbling sheep followers, it's the ******* leaders who have completely abandoned, nay, in fact, spit in the face of, justice and all that is "right" for free American's.
We have witnessed these "leaders" /allowing/ physical violence against their political rivals - not the politicians who one could argue put themselves in the proverbial ring and open themselves up to nutcases, but THE ******* CITIZENS who's only "crime" is going to a political rally.
We have witnessed these "leaders" ACTIVELY CALLING for those attacks on INNOCENT CITIZENS who's only "crime" is taking a job with political opposition.
And yesterday, we learned that we have witnessed these "leaders" abandon the core values of this nation; that a man, who's only "crime" is being nominated to the SCOTUS by the president, and/or a woman, who's only "crime' was thinking/believing she was sexually assaulted, should /both/ be utterly destroyed simply to buy these "leaders" time...
This is no longer "politics as usual" and this cannot stand. (I have a husband, four sons, and likely grandsons some day that I'm thinking about here.)
I know our kind sometimes blows off mid-terms as "less important," but we really need to vote this time and as always, we must look at the whole picture when we do so.
And when you do vote, I ask that you ask yourself; what means justify what ends...
Dear
EverCurious Thank you for summarizing what could have taken a much longer post to capture all you covered.
The solution is that people who do respect process and principle use that to check and correct abuses.
The reason this isn't getting done is if nobody asks. But look at how Grassley and Graham handled this, and now Flake. They were respectful and inclusive of Ford's right to petition to request fuller investigation to redress grievances. They respected the law and made very strong statements while remaining respectful of her.
We need more examples like this from more leaders. Lessons in due process. Examples how to receive each other's complaints and statements without bullying to shut down or shut up someone from speaking their perspective and defending their beliefs in truth.
Ford Kavanaugh and the prosecuting interviewer all set a much higher standard and example instead of the hateful bullying rhetoric that's become the media culture and bait of the day.
Let's look to and follow better examples of the Democratic process we want to see in our society and govt.
You speak candidly and transparently about your concerns and grievances with politics.
That's exactly what is needed, thank you!
The answer I'd give to ppl asking advice about voting is to promote and support candidates you believe will respond best to corrections and solutions with respect to the Constitution . It's not enough to judge on what they've supported or said in the past because most aren't offered the best Constitutional choice or ideas to solve problems, but most get painted into a corner and forced to vote Yes or no on a conpromised bill or option. So it's hard to know what they would have said had a better option or solution been offered instead of the party line crap that sets people up to fail.
But either imagine asking them to support something better, and if you can't see them agreeing to be the bigger person then vote for the person you feel would better agree to represent and include what you want as a solution .
If you don't know, then ask.
Write to the candidate or leader you would like to support and find out. Go meet with party chair or precinct members in your district. Whichever leader or group is open to working toward what you see as a solution, support that group or the people supporting that leader.
What I find is grassroots leaders all around me working on different parts of multiple solutions. So I support them all.
Life is like an orchestra and we all have different parts to play to make the symphony work. So find where your heart belongs and who sings the same song or same key. We align with our section and find where we fit in to contribute to the ensemble, and the whole symphony sings.
If people are clashing we need to get on the same page. By section or group but not competing to drown out or kick out another section off the stage. All voices are needed that make the population of America so beautiful and majestic in our full wealth of diversity.
Let's not allow fear to destroy that beauty love and pride in our country our states our brothers and sisters. We have much more to be proud of, and what we are ashamed of we grieve together.
Reach out and ask which leaders can help us achieve which solutions. Start there and help connect community groups with leaders who listen and include us.
Invest time energy efforts and resources in creating those solutions and relations and jobs so the right ppl and groups get paid to implement and replicate the right model programs.
Vote not just with your ballots and money but your words and actions. The people will end up leading our govt, as it should be, not the other way around.
As always, your advise is sage.
Compromise has been getting more and more difficult to find these past decades. I often feel like it's "never enough" for too many, like... we give amnesty and it morphs into open borders somehow... We give a helping hand up and it morphs into we've now "adopted" 30-60 million financial children... We give "fine be gay whatever" and it morphs into hate speech should be illegal... Personally Emily, I'll level with you, I'm officially tired of letting things go, I'm tired of giving an inch and being taken for a mile. It's like when your kids are screaming in the store, it's bad enough they're screaming in the store like assholes to begin with, but when they start throwing stuff off the shelves that you're ultimately going to have to pay for, it's time for the belt...
Still, I'll try to keep my guns in the safe a bit longer heh
Dear
EverCurious
1. The things escalating out of hand is due to NOT doing the work "outside of govt"
that is CAUSING people to run TO govt crying for help to fix the abuses and messes.
So that's why it's a bigger and bigger mess.
Yes, we still need to GIVE people the FREEDOM to clean up their rooms and houses.
We can't abuse Govt to "order" them to do it by mandates and dictates etc.
And because we don't all agree how to fix things, YES it takes forever
and more mess piles up. While we fight over who's in charge of which room
in which house or who wants to dictate for the whole neighborhood and why
that isn't going to work, etc. we don't ever focus on the actual clean up plans!
2. If it's any comfort, think of the people sick of religious abuse, too.
After hearing and saying it over and over, yes the corrections will come.
Justice will come to those who are patient and forgive and endure trials, tribulations and persecution.
And still we see abusive garbage.
But that doesn't mean we thrown out all religion, all Christianity for the garbage going
on with cult and religious abuse. We keep enforcing what does work, what IS being done right.
And so the same is happening with govt.
The parties and people WITH good working ideas
deserve that chance to keep growing programs and proving what works.
Some of these are nonprofits. Some are individuals, some plans
haven't been implemented yet. But we can't thrown out the process
and plans just because of bad ones that fail.
3. Also, the fact you are getting tired. Others are saying enough, we need to speak out
and take action. The time HAS come to start rebuilding, not waiting for others to.
So I think that is why you are posting this and we are connecting on what to do now.
I've found so many others who have been preaching solutions for 20, 30, even 40 years.
So the ones with a track record get to serve as working examples.
We can focus our energy on promoting and publicizing THOSE solutions.
And not argue over problems and who's to blame.
Before this point in time, people weren't ready for solutions.
Now they can't stand to hear anything but what is going to work!
So we are all fed up, and you sense this.
I think we are finally ready now, where we weren't close in the past.
Currently, women on left and right are rethinking the Clinton charges
and how we handled abuses in the past vs the politics everyone is calling out now.
So maybe we are ready to put together solutions across party lines,
and quit this deadlock obstruction business.
Thanks again, I believe you are sensing a change in the times.
This is good, for the exhausting wasteful ways of the past to come to an end,
to give up on doing things the hard way,
and opening the door for better approaches.
All our younger leaders and party members are asking for change.
It may not be the change we envisioned, but will likely be greater than we imagined.
We are letting go, and opening the door for the next stage.
Look forward to seeing the new partnerships and innovations
that come from other people "giving up on the old" and being open to the new!
Take care, let go and look forward to better approaches ahead.
It certainly can't get any worse than the garbage of the past.
Even the circus over Ford and Kavanaugh was better than the
civil wars over Bush and Clinton. There was civility despite the
harsh disagreements, and that gave me hope we might be ready to get real.
Trump opened the door for everyone to come out and tweet whatever
you wanted to say or accuse other people of, or make whatever political statement.
So now we have this new venue for expressing and redressing grievances.
Let's see if we can share solutions as loudly as we bark about problems!
Thanks
EverCurious I hope you feel
better and see that things are on their way up and out!
Yours truly, Emily