Bump. Dig into them pockets, people!
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WinterBorn
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My sincerest condolences for Aye. I can only imagine the pain she is feeling.
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Thank you all...
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So you guys can know, I have been emailing with Aye today. She still needs help from us. She is about $3000 short on expenses for her daughter. The hurt she is bearing is almost impossible.
She needs help, and we can help her. Please, and thank you.
www.gofundme.com
She needs help, and we can help her. Please, and thank you.
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WelfareQueen
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So you guys can know, I have been emailing with Aye today. She still needs help from us. She is about $3000 short on expenses for her daughter. The hurt she is bearing is almost impossible.
She needs help, and we can help her. Please, and thank you.
Donate to Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama, organized by Max Major
My name is Max Major and I’m trying to help Amanda Lizama’s mother raise money to help with … Max Major needs your support for Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama
I joined this board within a few months of Aye and got to know her a bit in the Tavern way back when. A very nice lady and an excellent moderator on this board. I am so sorry for her loss, particularly at this time of year. Words cannot properly express.....
So you guys can know, I have been emailing with Aye today. She still needs help from us. She is about $3000 short on expenses for her daughter. The hurt she is bearing is almost impossible.
She needs help, and we can help her. Please, and thank you.
Donate to Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama, organized by Max Major
My name is Max Major and I’m trying to help Amanda Lizama’s mother raise money to help with … Max Major needs your support for Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama
Just found a little bit more under the couch cushions. Tell Aye we're rooting for her.
- Aug 10, 2008
- 47,637
- 21,338
- 2,645
I get paid tomorrow, I’ll send something. I can’t begin to imagine the painSo you guys can know, I have been emailing with Aye today. She still needs help from us. She is about $3000 short on expenses for her daughter. The hurt she is bearing is almost impossible.
She needs help, and we can help her. Please, and thank you.
Donate to Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama, organized by Max Major
My name is Max Major and I’m trying to help Amanda Lizama’s mother raise money to help with … Max Major needs your support for Funeral costs for Amanda Lizama
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It's a hell that can't really be described. It's like I'm floating around outside my body and can't find my way back, a never-ending nightmare of sorts. I am having a very hard time saying (much less typing) the words "she died". I don't want to accept it - I just can't right now. Sleep is a thing of the past; after 30 minutes to 2 hours, I'm up wide awake. Getting more than 5 hours total of "cat nap" rest a night is a blessing. Most days, I wake up early, go downstairs, sit down, and before I know it, the day is over, sometimes it's 1 or 2am and I didn't move all day. I can't remember most of what the funeral home director told me when I went to talk to them and make arrangements. I couldn't remember what days and times the services were set for. I didn't want either of those days to get here. It was all I could do to keep from running away ... I guess I was thinking that if I didn't see her lying in the casket at the funeral home, then it wasn't real... The grief is so intense and deep at times, it's as though my soul is being ripped apart. I take it day by day, minute by minute. At times I can talk about Hailee with a smile on my face without breaking down, others I can't get her name out without falling apart. A friend of mine that lost his daughter told me that this is my new "normal", that it'll never go away.
The "natural order" of things - parents aren't supposed to outlive their children. We are here to take care of them, to support them, to ensure they have a solid footing in life before they head out into the world on their own, then when it's time for us to leave this world, they make sure everything is taken care of. Before we get to that point in life, most of us make sure we have life insurance to cover those expenses with plenty left over so that our kids are able to take time off from work and not worry about how they are going to make everything fall into place. I can't speak for any other parent, but I know I never thought I'd have to bury one of my children. I didn't have life insurance on Hailee and I don't have any on my 2 sons. Most of you know I'm a single parent and have raised my kids without help from anyone. Their father hasn't paid a penny of any of the costs and has only made excuses. All of it has been on me to bear. A few of her friends started the GoFundMe as a way to help me with all of it. If y'all would share the link, I'd really appreciate it.
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