Said1
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You learn something new everyday. I had no idea there was a fat acceptance movement, I assumed advocates came from numerous organizations.
And yes this is from a Feminist magazine.
Big Trouble | Bitch Magazine
And yes this is from a Feminist magazine.
Becky1 has been active in the fat acceptance movement for a good half-dozen years. She attends and organizes awareness-raising events, takes part in her local fat social scene, and fights to end discrimination against fat people with a powerful combination of weary sadness and righteous anger. She wears her weight like well-adorned armor, betraying no sense of regret or shame in her 480-pound body.
Becky also has an eating disorder. When I asked her how she reconciles these two parts of her life, she replied simply, I dont. Becky hasnt come out about her eating disorder to her peers in the fat acceptance movement and has no plans to do so anytime soon. A binge eater who uses food as a control mechanism, Becky literally shakes when discussing what would happen if she were found out within the movement. That kind of stuff just isnt talked about, she explains. If I actually admitted that I cant control when or what I eat, and that I hate myself because of it . I mean, youre kidding, right?
The stories of other women prove that Beckys misgivings are unfortunately justified. Susan, a recovering bulimic, was actually kicked out of a social group for fat lesbians when she started following the food plan given to her by a nutritionist. She was called a traitor and told she was giving up her soul with her new regimen, since it meant that she might lose weight as a result of her changed behaviors. I thought I was losing bad habits, not friends, Susan laments. What I discovered is that its just not okay to talk about the fact that some people are fat because they have serious problems with food. I was [called] fatphobic, but really I was just trying to save my own life.
Ive talked to more than a dozen women like Becky and Susan, all of whom are active in the fat acceptance movement, and all of whom identify as eating disordered. Each feels certain that she would no longer be welcome in the fat acceptance community if she were honest about her sickness.
How has the political and social climate of the fat acceptance movement become one in which its members are legitimately afraid that they will be rejected from the community if they openly acknowledge their diseases?
Big Trouble | Bitch Magazine