ETA for Orgasm

[Pogo]

Pshaw. You gotta learn to appreciate The Build. We're talkin' two to four hours.

It's weird, I have no patience for anything else -- how long something takes to cook, load a web page, whatever. Totally different in this case though.

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Same reason you'd want an appetizer before the main course.... or a main course before dessert....

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

Sure but not for 4 HOURS!

LOL- that would probably be too long! Longest I can remember was about an hour......

The journey is often more fantastic than the destination.

I agree, but I don't need any journey to take 2-4 hours. I would say one hour tops!

Think of it as the Scenic Route.

 

[Pogo]

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

In a way, yes you have a point.

 

[Pogo]

It’s a slap in the face if a guy doesn’t cum.
It just means he’s not that into you. Period.

Oh no, not period. Could be all kinds of reasons, first of which being that the primary sex organ is the brain. And there's a lot more in there than whether he's into you, including a whole lot of self-expectation. Could also be a physical factor.

 

[Bonzi]

Well at age 52, I get to decide what I want and don't want.
Sometime nothing is better than settling for what you are not looking for.
My masturbation is quite surpreme. I don't have to worry about what the guys is thinking or if he's enjoying it or if he's worried I'm enjoying it. I can just cut loose and not worry about that shit.

if I send he's just going with the flow and acting out of passion, it's all good.
That's why the initial 'wild sex" of built up passion is always best. It's animalistic and intuitive. No thinking involved.

 

[Wry Catcher]

Well, revved up and having an orgasm are two different things. Lol.

The real question is, on average, how long before you have one.... (on average)

Probably about 3-5 minutes, but then again I'm among a minority of women (apparently) capable of both a vaginal and a clitoral stimulated orgasm. Pats self on back.

that's about right for me - but in the movies etc. they seem to portray men as getting of more quickly and the women leave frustrated.

I wonder how often both climax at the same time... rare I would think. I think only once or twice for me... I'm not even sure

Not rare, my trigger was when the tempo of my partners movement and her breathing changed, that's when I reached the point of no return, and most times that is when she sensed my peak was in the works and boom -togetherness is great.

OMG, that is soooo corny. Lol.

Really, Truth is corny? Methinks you are full of yourself, and it doesn't smell very nice.

 

[ChrisL]

The real question is, on average, how long before you have one.... (on average)

Probably about 3-5 minutes, but then again I'm among a minority of women (apparently) capable of both a vaginal and a clitoral stimulated orgasm. Pats self on back.

that's about right for me - but in the movies etc. they seem to portray men as getting of more quickly and the women leave frustrated.

I wonder how often both climax at the same time... rare I would think. I think only once or twice for me... I'm not even sure

Not rare, my trigger was when the tempo of my partners movement and her breathing changed, that's when I reached the point of no return, and most times that is when she sensed my peak was in the works and boom -togetherness is great.

OMG, that is soooo corny. Lol.

Really, Truth is corny? Methinks you are full of yourself, and it doesn't smell very nice.

How does that make me full of myself? Are you for real? What you said was corny. No ifs, ands or buts about it! It's got nothing to do with me! Lol! You people just want to make it sound as if you are some amazing lovers. I am quite skeptical. Lol.

 

[ChrisL]

I'm sure ALL of these old men who spend their time answering questions about sex on the forum are fantastic lovers. Lol. Why, all the young gorgeous women must be busting down their doors just to try to get in on the action!

 

[Bonzi]

Well Chris, we have you that are full of yourself.
And me the sexual misfit!

I probably think you are a good lay, they are missing out - by think you're a *****....

 

[ChrisL]

Well Chris, we have you that are full of yourself.
And me the sexual misfit!

I probably think you are a good lay, they are missing out - by think you're a *****....

That's why I'm here! I'm not here to make friends with a bunch of old married dudes. Lol. What for? What do I get out of it?

 

[ChrisL]

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Same reason you'd want an appetizer before the main course.... or a main course before dessert....

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

Sure but not for 4 HOURS!

LOL- that would probably be too long! Longest I can remember was about an hour......

The journey is often more fantastic than the destination.

I agree, but I don't need any journey to take 2-4 hours. I would say one hour tops!

Think of it as the Scenic Route.

If you spent 2 hours doing something, I think I would be like, let's move this along buddy! Ain't nobody got time for this!

 

[Wry Catcher]

Well Chris, we have you that are full of yourself.
And me the sexual misfit!

I probably think you are a good lay, they are missing out - by think you're a *****....

That's why I'm here! I'm not here to make friends with a bunch of old married dudes. Lol. What for? What do I get out of it?

I often wonder what narcissists "get out of it". Would you care to explain?

BTW, narcissists are lousy lovers.

 

[ChrisL]

Well Chris, we have you that are full of yourself.
And me the sexual misfit!

I probably think you are a good lay, they are missing out - by think you're a *****....

That's why I'm here! I'm not here to make friends with a bunch of old married dudes. Lol. What for? What do I get out of it?

I often wonder what narcissists "get out of it". Would you care to explain?

You need someone to explain to you why it is not conducive to your happiness to flirt with or get involved with married people?

I am a narcissist if not interested in that? Good grief!

 

[ChrisL]

Well Chris, we have you that are full of yourself.
And me the sexual misfit!

I probably think you are a good lay, they are missing out - by think you're a *****....

That's why I'm here! I'm not here to make friends with a bunch of old married dudes. Lol. What for? What do I get out of it?

I often wonder what narcissists "get out of it". Would you care to explain?

BTW, narcissists are lousy lovers.

You've got problems, eh?

 

[Syriusly]

I'm sure ALL of these old men who spend their time answering questions about sex on the forum are fantastic lovers. Lol. Why, all the young gorgeous women must be busting down their doors just to try to get in on the action!

Well i can't speak for all of the 'old men' here.....but I have all the action I need or want at home.