ETA for Orgasm

[ChrisL]

Different stroke for different folks.
I like it fast.

Pshaw. You gotta learn to appreciate The Build. We're talkin' two to four hours.

It's weird, I have no patience for anything else -- how long something takes to cook, load a web page, whatever. Totally different in this case though.

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

 

[ChrisL]

For a few minutes might be okay, but not for hours. I would just punch you out and take what I want.

 

[percysunshine]

Do you have a trigger, like something that can make it happen in like 30 seconds?
What about boring old missionary.... 30 mins? 1 hour?

The longer you know someone the longer it takes?
At what point to you have to resort to thinking of others to make it happen?

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Are we talking about the first orgasm for the evening, or an average for all of them over the entire evening?
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[ChrisL]

Do you have a trigger, like something that can make it happen in like 30 seconds?
What about boring old missionary.... 30 mins? 1 hour?

The longer you know someone the longer it takes?
At what point to you have to resort to thinking of others to make it happen?

.
Are we talking about the first orgasm for the evening, or an average for all of them over the entire evening?
.

Oh geez. We have the manliest of men here, we do! Shut up! You would do it in 10 minutes tops and then be ready for bed!

 

[Bonzi]

Pshaw. You gotta learn to appreciate The Build. We're talkin' two to four hours.

It's weird, I have no patience for anything else -- how long something takes to cook, load a web page, whatever. Totally different in this case though.

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

 

[Bonzi]

To me it's about making love. An expression of love.
Not some mechanical sex game. Disgusting!

 

[Defiant1]

For a few minutes might be okay, but not for hours. I would just punch you out and take what I want.

It's more a male masturbation thing.

Most females like you only like it for a few minutes.
However, it does allow for the male to make the female orgasm many times.

 

[percysunshine]

Do you have a trigger, like something that can make it happen in like 30 seconds?
What about boring old missionary.... 30 mins? 1 hour?

The longer you know someone the longer it takes?
At what point to you have to resort to thinking of others to make it happen?

.
Are we talking about the first orgasm for the evening, or an average for all of them over the entire evening?
.

Oh geez. We have the manliest of men here, we do! Shut up! You would do it in 10 minutes tops and then be ready for bed!

Hmmm....I am not sure how to politely go about settling this debate...

 

[Syriusly]

What are you doing for two to four hours? What takes so long???

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

 

[ChrisL]

Edging.

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

Sure but not for 4 HOURS!

 

[Bonzi]

impatient ADHD people want the pleasure quickly.
but it's all individual preference.
I don't care if it takes long, but, I want to feel my partner is doing it out of desire and love.
Not like he's TRYING to satisfy me

 

[ChrisL]

You would have lock jaw after that amount of time!

 

[Fueri]

nnnnnnnope.

I've heard that men can lose sensation from masturbating too much too! Don't know if that's true or not either.

No idea. If I ever find that out I'll report back.

I'm being serious. I read an article about young men who watch a lot of internet porn who claim they cannot get satisfaction from "regular" sex.

I think that is not from masturbating too much, it is more a symptom of being addicted to porn.

Could be, but some say that they masturbate frequently and lose sensation. Probably just temporarily is what I'm thinking, especially if they are young men. I don't remember if that was addressed. It was an article I read online some time ago.

This can happen with women too. I had a fwb who claimed she masturbated with vibrators to the point it was the only thing that would get her off so she had to throw her collection away. By her own account she'd masturbate several times a day and I don't doubt it.

Easily the horniest person I ever knew. It got to the point that I used to jump her at odd times just to see if she'd ever refuse sex. Never once.....

 

[ChrisL]

I've heard that men can lose sensation from masturbating too much too! Don't know if that's true or not either.

No idea. If I ever find that out I'll report back.

I'm being serious. I read an article about young men who watch a lot of internet porn who claim they cannot get satisfaction from "regular" sex.

I think that is not from masturbating too much, it is more a symptom of being addicted to porn.

Could be, but some say that they masturbate frequently and lose sensation. Probably just temporarily is what I'm thinking, especially if they are young men. I don't remember if that was addressed. It was an article I read online some time ago.

This can happen with women too. I had a fwb who claimed she masturbated with vibrators to the point it was the only thing that would get her off so she had to throw her collection away. By her own account she'd masturbate several times a day and I don't doubt it.

Easily the horniest person I ever knew. It got to the point that I used to jump her at odd times just to see if she'd ever refuse sex. Never once.....

Well, you kind of missed the point. The point was people who masturbate to the point that they do not enjoy sex with another person anymore.

 

[Syriusly]

What's that?

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

Sure but not for 4 HOURS!

LOL- that would probably be too long! Longest I can remember was about an hour......

The journey is often more fantastic than the destination.

 

[ChrisL]

Getting to the brink, then backing off. over and over.

I would consider that to be teasing, no? Why do I want to be teased for 2 or 4 hours?

Why do men think women want that?
Can you say TORTURE?

2 to 4 hours would be excessive- but a little bit of 'torture'........oh that is exquisite.

The perfect blow job involves teasing, 'torture' and delayed satisfaction.

Sure but not for 4 HOURS!

LOL- that would probably be too long! Longest I can remember was about an hour......

The journey is often more fantastic than the destination.

I agree, but I don't need any journey to take 2-4 hours. I would say one hour tops!

 

[Fueri]

No idea. If I ever find that out I'll report back.

I'm being serious. I read an article about young men who watch a lot of internet porn who claim they cannot get satisfaction from "regular" sex.

I think that is not from masturbating too much, it is more a symptom of being addicted to porn.

Could be, but some say that they masturbate frequently and lose sensation. Probably just temporarily is what I'm thinking, especially if they are young men. I don't remember if that was addressed. It was an article I read online some time ago.

This can happen with women too. I had a fwb who claimed she masturbated with vibrators to the point it was the only thing that would get her off so she had to throw her collection away. By her own account she'd masturbate several times a day and I don't doubt it.

Easily the horniest person I ever knew. It got to the point that I used to jump her at odd times just to see if she'd ever refuse sex. Never once.....

Well, you kind of missed the point. The point was people who masturbate to the point that they do not enjoy sex with another person anymore.

I responded to the post about losing sensation, which was what she reported. Unless it was mechanized there was no way to get er done at one point.....

 

[Syriusly]

impatient ADHD people want the pleasure quickly.
but it's all individual preference.
I don't care if it takes long, but, I want to feel my partner is doing it out of desire and love.
Not like he's TRYING to satisfy me

The two can be the same thing.

Let us be honest here- there are times when women I have been with have had a difficult time reaching orgasm- even if she normally orgasms relatively easily with me- distraction or whatever- it happens.

Now I love having sex with her out of desire- and love- but there can be points where I am really focusing on the final big O- because I get kicks out of bringing my woman to orgasm- but also because she is going to be cranky if I have mine and she doesn't have hers.

 

[Bonzi]

It’s mostly mental. The rest is crap.
If you like to be “serviced” that will get you excited.
If you like to be “loved” that will get you excited.
If you are into the “mechanics” that will get you excited.
You just have to find someone that likes what you like.
How many men adore a woman and just want to make love to her because of a profound depth of feeling for her? Anyone?

 

[Bonzi]

It’s a slap in the face if a guy doesn’t cum.
It just means he’s not that into you. Period.