A real god would not want to be feared or obeyed. This is part of the chemistry of a human tribal god, nothing more.Ecclesiastes 12:13
King James Version
13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.
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Mortimer , It doesn't mean to be scared of God but to fear His wrath and anger if you don't obey the Commandments.