Nope. The young children should be maintained in the same manner as before the divorce. If Mom was staying home with her 5 and 7 year olds, then she should be given enough money to maintain that until the kids are older.Bull snot. There's a LOT of working moms. She shouldn't get a pass on her responsibilities just because she had children and a divorce. These alimony moochers are no better than welfare moochers.
Young children have had enough of a disruption by having Dad no longer a presence in the house. Now you want to send them to after-school programs rather than home to Mom, as they are used to? Get over your anger toward women enough to understand that it is important to provide SOME stability to the children involved.