I'm not really sure how that notion was started. Just because it's been around forever doesn't mean it's a truism. The cost of living has not increased dramatically. The perception is that it has increased because a lot of people have come to view things that our parents may have had and grandparents never heard of at the time as necessities. Cable TV, cell phones, multiple vehichles, multiple tvs. All these luxury items that people just don't consider as luxuries. They are now considered 'standard' in your 'standard' of living.
I am not talking about THINGS! I am talking about COST OF LIVING (I will use myself as an example).
Rent: My rent has gone up $183.99 in three years. That's roughly 4.5% a year. As opposed to:
Income: I have received an increase totalling @ 3% up until now. Increases were frozen last year and probably this one (for us peons, anyway, I'm sure the exec's will get theirs).
Utilities: My power bill has almost doubled in three years.
Transportation: Metro card for 30 days has increased 20% in three years and will probably go up another 20% soon.
Insurance: My insurance premiums on my HMO went up about 15% last year for no reason.
Food: Good god, I looked at generic store butter yesterday and it was $4.99/ LB!!! I would say that food has gone up 20-40% depending on where you are.
I used to be able to put $200 in saving s every month - as of '06. I am now lucky if I am able to put in $40 or $50.