Because everything whites have is because they had an advantage handed them based on race.
My father got NOTHING that the blacks in his class didn’t get: a free college education for the bright kids.
You are going to be miserable and angry until the day you die. The Jews living in America in the 1940s had every right to live the remainder of their lives in misery and anger: their grandparents, parents, and siblings had just been SLAUGHTERED by Hitler! (And no, they didn’t get reparations for it.)
Instead, they did as they always did after a horrible instance of antisemitism, which has occurred for millenia. They continued to support one another with close-knit communities of stores, shops, synagogues, and so forth. They continued their emphasis on education, and my own dad was studying in his tenement to earn a free ride through college - the same as his black classmates, if they chose - while his own mother cried softly in the other room so as not to disturb my dad‘s studying.
Did my grandmother rail against the Nazis the rest of her life? No. She never even spoke of it to me, and I only know because Dad told me. When I reached college-age, I learned that my poor, uneducated grandmother had managed to save $30,000 (1975 dollars) for my college education! THAT is how one succeeds, and doesn’t let the bigots win: by focusing all efforts on being successful, and yes…that means no children before marriage as well.
So, IM2, instead of wasting all your obvious energy and intelligence on being angry and hounding whites for payback, look to other minorities and emulate how THEY were able to achieve so well in the face of so much adversity.
”Living well is the best revenge.”