is your dislike of Musk based on political ideology, or constipation.
I don't dislike Musk at all. I admire his skills as a huckster. But math don't lie ...
The mission to land 12 men on the moon cost 110 Billion Dollars. A permanent base on the moon or high Earth orbit (essential to supply a Mars colony) will cost 500 Billion or more.
Cost of a colony on Mars ... at least a Trillion Dollars.
No private company or consortium of companies will put up a Trillion dollars for a project without commercial potential to recoup that investment. Musk doesn't have anywhere near that kind of money. All the richest men on the planet together couldn't finance such an undertaking.
Musk's plans relies on 1960's lifting body technology that means every ounce of material put in to space costs $650. One liter of water from Earth to orbit costs $22,000 -- not including the Voss bottle. The cost of putting Musk himself into orbit is 2.5 Million dollars (he's on the plump side).
There is a way to invest in technology that will open up space for exploitation and that is a Space Elevator, which lowers lift costs from tens of thousands per kilogram to hundreds or less. Want to be serious about space travel, get serious about making it worth it.
Even THIS isn't worth $22,000 per kilo ...