Coming Out as a ***

[ZackB]

I am straight. At least that is how it appears. I have never had any homo experiences nor have I wanted to. I have never slipped and "accidentally" fell down onto an erect cock, for example. I have been married and I have kids. I feel that I must say this because some of you assholes will waste a lot of time and space trying to make this seem like it is something it is not. Now, to the point.

I think that if I was a closeted ****** I would refrain from coming out. I know that it would absolutely devastate my family, especially siblings, nephews, nieces, parents, etc.., to find out that I was a homo. So, why hurt all of those people and **** up vital familial relationships? I don't think that I would even act out on urges given that it would bring such shame down in the family.

I know that this goes against the grain - the whole "be who you are" bullshit. But there was a time when the family came first and your selfish needs and desires were secondary. Today there is what could be described as an epidemic of narcissism whereby individuals will damn everything that does not further their desired ends.

I don't think I would feel differently if I was a *** either. I'd keep that shit to myself and feel like I had a duty to do so. Even if I had to act on it I would feel a duty to protect my family. After all, I have no right to impose my views and lifestyle on anyone else. I'd keep the boy toys under wraps if I had any and just tell the family that they are neighbors or some shit. For me personally, I probably would not even act on a homo desire. I would just quietly bare that burden. Why? Because I love my family and I am not a selfish, drama queen, prick.

Interesting. Would you break up with the opposite sex love of your life because your parents, siblings, nieces and nephews didn't think she was appropriate for you? If she was a different religion or denomination and your family or church didn't approve?

I have a very good friend who is Hispanic and he it's dating a black woman. His parents don't approve. So is he being selfish by loving her?

Is the line only at being gay? Why pick such an arbitrary point at which to limit yourself?

Nothing arbitrary about it. I have screwed beaners with my family's knowledge. If you do not see the difference home homosexuality then that is your issue, dude, and I cannot help you with it, nor do I care to waste my time trying.

 

[sealybobo]

Look as an effort to show my good will and sensibilities, I took my pics out of the gallery.
What more do you want from me? I should hide my stunning personality as well????

Get a clue. You don't have to hide your personality but you might wake up to how insecure you're coming across.

I'm trying my best to understand what this thread is about. Is OP closet gay or repressed gay or what?

What the op is trying to say is that he would stay in the closet to appease his family and anybody that doesn't make that same choice is selfish.

To be honest I could never tell my guy friends, dad, brother or nephews if I was gay. I would just sneak around.

Of course you wouldn't. Part of the *** agenda is to divide and disrupt; to destroy the traditional family. That is pure leftist cancer - destruction of traditional institutions.

No it isn't. It would be horrible to tell all the men in my life I'm gay. Why? Because our society is homophobic.

 

[ZackB]

Get a clue. You don't have to hide your personality but you might wake up to how insecure you're coming across.

I'm trying my best to understand what this thread is about. Is OP closet gay or repressed gay or what?

What the op is trying to say is that he would stay in the closet to appease his family and anybody that doesn't make that same choice is selfish.

To be honest I could never tell my guy friends, dad, brother or nephews if I was gay. I would just sneak around.

Of course you wouldn't. Part of the *** agenda is to divide and disrupt; to destroy the traditional family. That is pure leftist cancer - destruction of traditional institutions.

No it isn't. It would be horrible to tell all the men in my life I'm gay. Why? Because our society is homophobic.

No, "homophobia" is a leftist construct to facilitate their agenda of destroying our institutions. It is not real. It is certainly not a phobia.

 

[Geaux4it]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

 

[sealybobo]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

Define normal.

 

[Geaux4it]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

Define normal.

Simple Definition of normal

• 
  : usual or ordinary : not strange
  
  
• : mentally and physically healthy
  

 

[Bonzi]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

That may be the dumbest thing I have ever heard

 

[Bonzi]

The bottom line is no one knows.
No one can say with 100% certainty WHY.

Opinions are just that.

In life we make our decisions and live with them.

The OP said a married guy should basically denying the indulgence of his desire for men.
How is that different from a married man denying the indulgence of his desire for other women?

 

[sealybobo]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

Define normal.

Simple Definition of normal

• 
  : usual or ordinary : not strange
  
  
• : mentally and physically healthy

You're probably fat.

Should unordinary be outlawed?

 

[Geaux4it]

Homos are not normal. If they were, they would not be fags

-Geaux

Define normal.

Simple Definition of normal

• 
  : usual or ordinary : not strange
  
  
• : mentally and physically healthy

You're probably fat.

Should unordinary be outlawed?

Bloomberg is trying, You heard about the ban on big gulps in NYC?

-Geaux

 

[ZackB]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

 

[Bonzi]

Nobody is dictating anything.

Elected officials make decisions and law. Take it up with your Congressman

 

[Geaux4it]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

Like those who will not admit to supporting Trump, your OP explains why there is reported to be only 3-5 percent of fags who admit it. They stay in the closet like Tom Cruise did, afraid of the Scarlet letter 'F'

-Geaux

 

[Dogmaphobe]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

Left-handedness is also "abnormal" by the same definition.

What is TRULY abnormal and perverted, however, is all the prurient attention you give to those who are doing you no harm, doing each other no harm, and who are no more truly "abnormal" than those who write with their left hand.

There is absolutely no reason for you to worry so much unless you are simply so fearful of attractions you might have that you find it necessary to obsess in this way.

For **** sakes alive, Isis is rampaging through the Middle east lopping off people's heads, girls are mutilated daily by savages, kids are abused or go hungry, yet you would think the single most important issue in the world for some people involves what people decide to do in the bedroom.

 

[Dhara]

I'm trying my best to understand what this thread is about. Is OP closet gay or repressed gay or what?

What the op is trying to say is that he would stay in the closet to appease his family and anybody that doesn't make that same choice is selfish.

To be honest I could never tell my guy friends, dad, brother or nephews if I was gay. I would just sneak around.

Of course you wouldn't. Part of the *** agenda is to divide and disrupt; to destroy the traditional family. That is pure leftist cancer - destruction of traditional institutions.

No it isn't. It would be horrible to tell all the men in my life I'm gay. Why? Because our society is homophobic.

No, "homophobia" is a leftist construct to facilitate their agenda of destroying our institutions. It is not real. It is certainly not a phobia.

You don't like homophobe? How about homo oppress or homo hate?

 

[Dhara]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

I notice you post quite a lot about homosexuality. Why the obsession?

 

[Dogmaphobe]

I notice you post quite a lot about homosexuality. Why the obsession?

I wouldn't rule out a medical condition.

Signs of Phallophilia - RightDiagnosis.com

 

[ZackB]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

Like those who will not admit to supporting Trump, your OP explains why there is reported to be only 3-5 percent of fags who admit it. They stay in the closet like Tom Cruise did, afraid of the Scarlet letter 'F'

-Geaux

You may have a point. But that means we will never really know what the true percentage is.

 

[ZackB]

Homosexuality is "abnormal" by definition, as only around 3-4% of the population is gay. However, if you believe the gay-leftist propaganda that is seeking (successfully) to normalize and politicize this abnormal behavior, you would believe that it is rampant. It is total bullshit for 3-4% of the population to dictate how the rest of us behave.

Left-handedness is also "abnormal" by the same definition.

What is TRULY abnormal and perverted, however, is all the prurient attention you give to those who are doing you no harm, doing each other no harm, and who are no more truly "abnormal" than those who write with their left hand.

There is absolutely no reason for you to worry so much unless you are simply so fearful of attractions you might have that you find it necessary to obsess in this way.

For **** sakes alive, Isis is rampaging through the Middle east lopping off people's heads, girls are mutilated daily by savages, kids are abused or go hungry, yet you would think the single most important issue in the world for some people involves what people decide to do in the bedroom.

I am not against fags or *** activity. Rather, I am (1) acknowledging that being a *** is probably difficult emotionally, and (2) the left has politicized fags for their own gain, using them as pawns. I think that you are misunderstanding me.

 

[ZackB]

What the op is trying to say is that he would stay in the closet to appease his family and anybody that doesn't make that same choice is selfish.

To be honest I could never tell my guy friends, dad, brother or nephews if I was gay. I would just sneak around.

Of course you wouldn't. Part of the *** agenda is to divide and disrupt; to destroy the traditional family. That is pure leftist cancer - destruction of traditional institutions.

No it isn't. It would be horrible to tell all the men in my life I'm gay. Why? Because our society is homophobic.

No, "homophobia" is a leftist construct to facilitate their agenda of destroying our institutions. It is not real. It is certainly not a phobia.

You don't like homophobe? How about homo oppress or homo hate?

I do not think that I am any of those things. I think that you are allowing your emotive response get the best of you.