I would be most interested in how you thought "the party" would not allow Romney to express his views on abortion.
Truly.
He can see that wanting to outlaw abortion was a losing issue. He had said he was pro choice before, but when he ran in 2012 he never described himself that way. He was accused of flip flopping on the issue. I don't think the party would elect a pro choice candidate.
Most of the problem is from both sides is a position of no return. No one wants to talk. Everyone just wants to hammer each other with their position. This is so wrong.
Look, Tiny, I don't want to be rude, because you know I like you, but where, precisely, would you like us to "return" to? You understand very well that we're talking about the killing of unborn children. That's not just a belief; it's medical fact. So what do you expect us to do? Pretend they AREN'T children, or that they're NOT being killed? Are we supposed to ignore medical science in order to "compromise" and not make people feel bad about those deaths? Even if we were wrong, scientifically speaking - and we're not - what kind of monsters would it make us if we offered to compromise a belief like that?
It's not like the subject here is tax cuts or pork-barrel spending.
I'm just not sure what there is to talk about.
One has to remember though, and boy oh boy I don't mean to come off harsh or strident in my other posts, that for all conservatives, at least half of us are women. Just like the left.
When Sarah Palin talked about being alone in her hotel room knowing she was carrying a Down's Syndrome baby and truly understanding for the first time in her life, that one glimmer of a moment of the thought of abortion where she could understand it for other women, I couldn't breathe at her honesty. I knew she felt it. Sarah would never have aborted Trig, but as a woman she understood. Bless her soul. She is just so honest.
Again, I'm not trying to be rude to you, but is this supposed to mean that those of us who say we've never, not even for a nano-second, contemplated killing our children or making them disappear from our lives are NOT being honest? Or is it that IF we've never had that thought, we can't possibly understand the issue or have anything to say about it?
I get that you admire Sarah Palin for being brave enough to say that, I guess, but I will tell you honestly that there are many of us out here - even women whose pregnancies fell under the heading of "the leftists would have killed the baby" - who have never had that "glimmer of understanding", and cannot imagine ever doing so.
I can't apologize for thinking that a woman who would kill her own child is the most repugnant thing imaginable. And I won't apologize for thinking that she SHOULD be.
I think if we could first and foremost actually have a discussion in the conservative community to make so many begin to understand that abortion is not a casual gesture except for the most stoned out idiots among us. Women die a thousand deaths making this choice. This is painful. This hurts. This leaves scars forever on the heart.
There must be other ways. But we have to open the dialogue.
Do you honestly think we don't know that abortion is harmful to women, albeit a lot less so than it is to the children? Do you not hear us talking about the women who are fooled into believing it's "just a medical procedure" like getting their appendix out, only to find that they've ruined their lives? Have you not heard the pro-lifers talk about the young girls being preyed on and victimized with the willing collusion of many of the most prominent abortion supporters and providers?
Just because our first priority is the babies who are dying in the millions doesn't mean we're not also fighting for the women who are being used and misled and for the society that's being destroyed along the way.
What, exactly, do you think we should "dialogue" about, if not the facts of the case and the lies that are being used to distort and hide those facts?