However, he expects us not to question his word. No one knows the thoughts of God, and no one will, except the Holy Spirit.
But by all means pray on it. Just don't pray on it with a critical or demanding spirit. The idea of watering down the word, and "accepting" sinful behavior in the church...well, Paul had plenty to say about it. As did Christ himself.
As to why God hasn't called Satan to heel yet...he tells us in the Bible what the plan is, and he tells us that he will call Satan to heel when what needs to come to pass comes to pass. He knows when, apparently he doesn't think you need to...which is stated quite clearly in the Bible. He doesn't answer to you, or to me, and he states quite adamantly that no one will know the time....Does it make a difference to you? Because if it does, then you are doubting God, his Word, and his truthfulness, and you shouldn't be in a position of leadership within the church. Take some time off and ground yourself.