Gay marriage is inevitable. And only religious progressives believe in Government controlling our sex lives as marriage. Marriage is a Government issue for tax reasons only, get rid of the deductions and taxes and there is no reason for Government to be involved in a religious matter.
Have you ever stopped to consider that it may not be inevitable? Let's talk about Utah for a minute. Christians, mormons and muslims, as a matter of their 1st Amendment rights, have faith and know that to enable homosexuliaty brings about eternal damnation, as set forth in the lesson of Jude, New Testament. It gave the example of the city of Sodom with its inhabitants that sought "strange flesh" where in the Koran it cited that men lay with men "as their wives". Not just the gays in that town, but all the people that turned a blind eye or worse, supported them, everyone, was thrown into the pit of fire forever.
The Bible has few examples of eternal damnation for a sin. There are venial [minor] sins, cardinal [medium] sins and mortal [radical] sins. For some reason, the Bible and the Koran have elevated a homosexual-promoting culture as "mortal":worthy of the worst punishment for the soul.
As Utah's 2/3rds majority squares off with gays, the matter will be a clear and concise freedom of religion in the 1st vs a very longshot hopeful "equality" stab at the 14th.
I say, gays will fail at the 14th since they are behavioral, not a "race" and therefore subject to local laws and customs. Children ensconced in gay households will not be harmed by not allowing these people to marry. The fact that gays and lesbians as a group revere Harvey Milk, child sex predator, as their civil rights leader, kills off any hope they have of pretending to be about the welfare of children.
When Utah is reaffirmed as being able to set its own parameters for marriage based on the fact of the 1st Amendment & in Windsor that each state has a sovereign right to do so retroactive to the founding of the country, strange dominoes will fall. Particularly, California's county clerk's identical arguments will apply. Prop 8 will be instantly enforceable law that clerks must follow there. And nobody but nobody can order them to defy it since to do so means they can be put in jail.
When the states that had gay marriage forced against their constitution are wiped off the gay-marriage map, the numbers will fall to just I think three states with "legal gay marriage". The arguments slated to come out urging gay marriage to be quelled where it is not legally enacted by consensus, as Windsor describes, will be quite scathing. I will not tire of saying that the Harvey Milk problem is HUGE for gays and lesbians. Monumental. Worshipping a child sex predator is not going to win them any friends in even the states where the people voted in gay marraige weren't aware at the time they did, that Harvey Milk "embodies the LGBT movement across the nation and the world." Or that kids in California are required to celebrate his sexuality in public schools now.
It would be the same as not knowing what Jerry Sandusky was up to, voting for a group who iconizes him [who know well what he was up to] to gain access to orphaned kids and then later finding out what Sandusky, and this group, stood for...
So your optimism is not well founded. I hope you are bracing yourself for an alternative ending to your dream...