Time to look at basic facts
The US armed military were in Iranian waters illegally.
The US armed military were very close to an Iranian naval base.
There is no hostage crisis, just armed members of a foreign military arrested as likely spies.
Your people were lucky - Iran had the absolute right to blow them out of the water.
If you disagree, I assume you'd be perfectly happy for an armed Iranian navy team to enter Pearl harbour.
They tried that kinda of shit on us back in the day............didn't work out well for them. These are small patrol boats and nothing more...................
They start shooting at our Navy and their piss ant Navy would cease to exist.
Nice - You invade another country's waters near to a top secret navy base, and you want to attack the country you were spying on.
No wonder so many people hate America.
Anyway, if America apologises, I'm sure you'll get your people back.