No one is forcing anything on you.
Sure they are. What 3% of Americans are gay yet they are represented in 80% of entertainment. They attack individuals, corporations, religions, and governments on a daily basis...they overturn lawful referendums....and God forbid someone believes in traditional family values, then it is even worst.
They just refuse to be your second class citizen.
How is a gay person a second class citizen, please be specific.
Sure, he is saying I am gay, I have sex with men.
What is frustrating you is you are becoming a cultural dinosaur. The world is moving on without you. Gays are no longer pariahs and they don't need you to approve of their lifestyle. That isn't relevant to the way they live their lives. That has become your cross to bear.
Cultural dinosaur. Really? What culture does a gay man bring outside of parading their sexuality on the streets and demanding we accept it.
The most telling part of your reply is when you said you wanted them to be unknown to you and be hidden in the scouts without your knowledge.
"YEP!" you said. It isn't about the kids.
It's about you.
I said YEP...it is about the kids. It is about teaching kids the gay lifestyle is wrong. Why are gays so hard up to teach kids their lifestyle is right?
Allowing gay scoutmasters, government recognized marriages and so on is justifying poor behavior. We should not justify poor behavior, no matter whose feelings it hurts.