Doesn't really matter if you're sure or not. Facts are facts. When Blacks have power to disenfranchise and discriminate against whites as a group only then can we be called racist.
Well... That's part of your problem. I'm not a group. Neither are you. You are an individual, same as I. What another white, or black person, does has nothing to do with either of us. I don't, and won't, judge a whole group of people based on what YOU do. That would be pretty stupid. That would be... Prejudice.
I think the word your grasping for is prejudice which everyone suffers from a little.
I agree that prejudice is a requirement for racism.