Oh. So God's love is conditional on our being alive? Once we're dead-- sorry, no more nice guy? You're so confusing...
What the hell is wrong with you?
We're talking about the deceased because THAT'S THE SUBJECT OF DISCUSSION HERE. What happens to the freaking deceased. Specifically, what happens to them according to Christian theology and how exactly you reached the conclusions you reached on that particular topic. And we're not talking about the
saved deceased because as far as I know there's nothing to talk about there. I'm pretty sure we're both agreed that according to Christian theology THOSE people go to heaven.
Now would you try getting it together and focusing? Just a bit?