Only one reason? That's the only one you can think of?
How about Wisdom? You don't think it might be wise to be able to protect oneself?
Prepared people have no reason to fear. It's only the ones who are unprepared who need to be afraid.
I would ask, what are you protecting yourself from?
I've known a couple of families that have had to bury a member who killed themselves with that gun they bought for protecting their families. It seems like the cure is worse than the disease.
Ironically, we are the richest country in the world, and we live in fear of our fellow citizens because we think that grinding poverty for an underclass is not only acceptable, but somehow validates our system.
We lock up 2 million people when most other advanced industrialized countries lock up less than 100K. We have 300 million guns out there, home security systems, bullet proof backpacks for our kids to go to school, that is the level of fear we live in...
And we think this is an expression of "Freedom".
In my wife's case...thugs. It's that simple. She works late (out until midnight tonight), she finishes her shift carrying cash and sometimes as many as a couple dozen credit card numbers (not to mention the $100,000 truck she drives or the tools in it). So yes, she carries a gun. They have had two drivers robbed (one of them beaten to a pulp) since she started working there.
"What are you protecting yourself from?" Did this fool REALLY ask that?
OF COURSE we fear other people. And if JoeB or any other leftist fool thinks that the rest of the world lives in complete peace and harmony, with no fear of their fellow man, they're even bigger ******* morons than I've always credited them with.
Let me tell you leftists what I'm protecting myself from.
I live in a city of 800,000 people, an hour from the Mexican border. We have a crime rate about twice what it should be for a city that size. Completely aside from violent crimes like assault and rape, our property crime rates are MUCH higher than they should be, because of our proximity to Mexico and the ease of disposing of stolen property there.
I have already been a victim of a crime. I was 18 at the time, and unarmed, and got away through a combination of luck and determination. The attacker was a man, larger than I was, and as it turned out had killed at least two other women before he attacked me.
Since I was in my own neighborhood at the time of the attack, and the police were certain it was a crime of opportunity - we just happened to be in the same place at the same time - rather than being planned, I figured he lived somewhere nearby, as well, and I started driving around the area with my sister, looking for him. Four days later, we saw him walking down the main thoroughfare near my house, called the police, and had him arrested.
That man is now dead, executed eight years after he was sentenced to prison for attacking me when his fingerprints were matched up to a crime scene. He had kidnapped a two-year-old girl, stabbed her multiple times with an ice pick, and left her to bleed to death in an abandoned car.
All this macho, testosterone-soaked posturing aside, what options do you leftists have to offer women? Are you going to level the playing field by making us as strong and muscular on average as men are? How about ridding the world of all aggressive, dangerous men? I realize you've made a lot of headway in feminizing and chickifying men, but I don't think you're creating a lot of metrosexuals in the population that winds up in prisons.
According to the FBI, there were 4,440 violent crimes in my city last year, and while the nationwide violent crime rate has dropped, Tucson's has risen. Most noticeable has been the rise in forcible rapes, of which there were 204 reported last year in my city.
Am I afraid of all of this? Of course I am. I'd be insane if I wasn't. But there are a couple of things you have to understand. The first is that "fear" is not the same as "paranoia". In my case, I'd say my fear of being raped, or robbed, or carjacked, or burgled, is pretty damned justified, just as is my fear of getting into a car accident driving around the city at 2:00 am on New Year's, or my fear of being bitten by a large, slavering dog that's snarling at me and baring his teeth.
The second is that, as I've said, "tough" and "brave" aren't a matter of feeling no fear. Only lunatics and idiots feel no fear, and there's no bravery involved in dealing with something that isn't scary. So the question becomes, how does a sane, sensible human being deal with a legitimate source of fear?
Well, I can do what a lot of leftists do, and bluster about how "really brave" people face danger unarmed. No, thanks. Been there, done that, and I can tell you how wholly inadequate it is to have to hope for luck when your life and safety are at risk.
I can do what a lot of other leftists do, and huddle in my house every day as soon as the sun starts to go down, with multiple locks on the door and a gazillion "sensible" safety rules I have to remember whenever I go out, so that I spend all my time outside of my house concentrating on how dangerous the world is and how afraid I am of it. Again, I'll pass. (If you don't know what "sensible" safety rules I'm talking about, go take a self-defense and safety class for women that doesn't involve guns. Holy crap, I really WOULD be paranoid in no time!)
I can move away from a city that I like very much, and leave it to the gang members, illegal aliens, and other assorted criminals to go live somewhere that isn't nearly as pretty, with as lovely a climate, that I don't like as well, but at least it has a lower crime rate. **** that.
Or I can own and carry a gun, and maintain the freedom to live where I choose, go where I choose when I choose, and know that if someone is stupid enough to come into my house and make himself a threat to the children who are the center of my universe, I won't be reduced to huddling with them in a terrified mass in some closet while some vile piece of shit wanders loose in MY home, or watching helplessly as said vile piece of shit harms the lights of my life.
Do I have and carry a gun because I'm afraid? No, I have and carry one because I WAS afraid, and now I'm not.