that's right, his choice in the matter was consent to be responsible for a child the instant his sperm was implanted in a woman.
if he does not want a baby then HE has the responsibility to control his sperm.
BTW, a woman is held just as responsible once a baby is born....so what is your point?
No she's not She can still put the baby up for adoption, without the father's consent. Or she can decide to keep the baby and rape the man's bank account for the next two decades.
IMHO, and I am against abortion in nearly all cases, if the woman wants to keep the baby and she is not married, then she has that option. The father of the baby should have the "right" to either accept the role of "fatherhood" and all that entails including finical support and all other rights as any other father would have or give up all fatherhood rights and responsibilities including having to fund the child's life.
Then you would have true equal protection under the law.
I agree!
Most men would want to have a relationship with their child. So, if he doesn't want to marry the woman, he will pay support for the next 18 yrs. And if he's lucky, the woman will support him too letting him have the time with the child that he wants. If he doesn't want the child, he should not be liable if she decides to keep it. The courts should not be able to force him to pay up....he can sign off and never have anything to do with the child. I don't like it, but it's what it is.
And unless he signs off, even if the woman doesn't want support from him, the courts will go after him if she is on government assistance.
I've always said, the man should have just as much say about a child being born as the woman is. I know many won't agree with me, but I think if she gets pregnant, which happened because BOTH of them took part in it....that he should also have the option of making the woman have the child and give it up to him if she doesn't want it. It was both their choices to screw around, it should be both their choices to keep it.