Way too many white people in the USA are arrogant about the advantages they have, insensitive to challenges faced by minority groups and have a huge sense of entitlement to what they deserve in our society.
In a general sense whites have advantages in our society that minorities do not. Divisiveness between races is caused by whites not acknowledging the advantage and trying to understand the challenges of minorities.
With that being said minorities need to understand the challenges we all face including whites. We all must attempt to understand the circumstances of people different from us.
At the end of the day we all must realize life is not fair and go out and do the best we can dispite the unfair challenges we face.
We cannot use the unfair challenges to do nothing.
Where is your proof that minorities have less opportunity than whites? As far as I'm concerned, they born with the same opportunity as any other "average" white. Sure, there are the elite, who have more opportunity than the rest of us, but that is a class issue, and not a race issue. Our public school systems offer the same education to minorities as they do whites. It's a personal value in education that distinguishes opportunity. My school was about 50-50 between hispanics and whites. We all had the same opportunities... In fact, I'd be arguing that minorities have more opportunities. Considering minorities are typically less wealthy, they are offered more from the government, especially when it comes to college financial aid.
The problem, is that many minorites don't value an education. Their parents didn't, so they don't encourage their kids to. Then again, I have many white students who say their not going to go to college because their parents go jobs at plants without college degrees...what they don't realize, is that it was 20 years ago when they got their jobs.
Race doesn't play an issue when it comes to opportunity in this country, it's what you do with the opportunties that differentiates us.
I agree with your last statement that it depends on what you do with your opportunities no matter what your race, religion, social status etc.
I do not feel you can paint every races opportunities with the same brush.
But in a general sense, everything else being equal, whites have more opportunity than minorities. That may be because of social class. But that is a reality of the beginning of our country when all power positions were held by white males.
I am a white male. I have become very close friends with minorities in my later life. Some are doing much better than I. Through youth sports I have been involved with minority inner city youth.
These experiences have taught me alot. I have found that in a general sense the minoriities did not have all the advantages I did.
Obviously there are many minorities that had greater oppotunities. I am talking in a general sense.
What is great about our country is many with less opportunity, whether white or a minority can obtain more.
But we all must understand that everyone's circumstances are different.
I feel if the average white man could spend some time in a minorities shoes it would be tougher than they thought.
I feel if a minority could spend a day in a white man's shoes it would not be nearly as good as they thought.
At the end of the day we need to take advantage of our opportunities and we will be fine.