Am sure Jesus is real proud of folks denying service to others based on their sexuality...
Ya know, there are times I wonder... all that
Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin kind of thing... spin-doctored - with sincerity and conviction on the part of many folks - to read: Love the Sinner as a fellow Child of God, but from a distance, so as not to contaminate yourself nor those around you, and, consequently, do nothing to aid and abet him, in pursuit of his Sin or the Lifestyle to which that Sin leads him.
Truth be told, that's not a very big leap, is it?
And it's not very difficult for the pro-Gay side of the aisle, in turn, to spin-doctor that manifestation of sincere beliefs, to appear hateful or bigoted in nature, when, in fact, and in large part, it's really not.
It all depends upon one's perspective, apparently.
"...No Christian does that if they truly believe in LOVE THY NEIGHBOR and DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD THEM DO UNTO YOU. Golden Rule and Luke 6:31 which I memorized at age 5: 'And as you wish that others would do to you, do SO TO THEM'..."
If such aloofness or shunning or hold-at-arms'-length behaviors were directed at folks whose sexual practices were
not condemned as Sinful and Unnatural by 3000 years of sacred texts and supplemental writings and scholarly and popular interpretations and teachings, you might have a stronger case for pitching it that way.
"...Bunch of sad sack Christians here."
No doubt, there are, indeed, some of those, and some right here, for all I know, but adopting and maintaining such a position is
NOT prima facie evidence of Sad Sack status; rather, a great many head down that road because of genuine and sincerely-held religious beliefs - and to pretend otherwise is to deny the reality of the situation.