Well, if more Libertarians and TPers thought like you, I think they would have a lot more credibility with Independents (but probably still not Liberals).
The thing that frustrates me with Libs and even more so with Conservs, is the dichotomous "either / or" thinking.
I'll give you an example. I own a business and we're doing well. We're hiring in Vegas - hwere no one is. So some Right Wing Whackjob makes this post that EVERY person in this country who wants a job could have one tomorrow.
While I agree that there are certainly a lot of people who are abusing this NINETY NINE weeks thing (unreal!), I told him about a guy who applied with us. No degree. Former casino chip-counter (whatever the hell that is). Fifty years old. No computer skills. No other experience. Okay, there's the exception to the rule, say I.
Mr. Whackjob? Nah. If it doesn't fit neatly into the Conservative Propaganda, it doesn't exist.
I see that on both sides but definitely more with the Conservs. I've been called a Conserv and even a NeoCon all of a few times by the Libs. But disagree with Conservs on one single point - or even agree with thm but dare to say there might be exceptions to the rule? The Whackjob Wagon gets rolling and they instantly label you a "Lefty" or just plain insult you. All discussion and debate is over. You are now officially "one of them!". That kind of whackjobbery makes it tough to appreciate anyone's positions.
Actually the Tea Party movement is probably made up of more Independents than Republicans. Here in New Mexico that is heavily registered Democratic, the Democrats may actually have a slight plurality in some places. The Tea Party movement is based on a concept, a principle, not on specific legislation or 'how to'. The Tea Party may elect a candidate to go to Washington or the State House to rein in spending, reform unsustainable entitlements, and balance the budget without raising taxes so that they can spend as much as they want. They won't tell that candidate HOW to do it. But he or she gets his/her marching orders that this is what we want accomplished.
Please don't confuse the right wingnuts and rightwing numbnuts with TPers. The Tea Party is not an ideology. It is a principle. But yes, that principle is anathema to most liberals because it involves recognizing the people's right to govern themselves. Again that is anathema to modern American liberalism who looks to big central government to create the sort of society it believes it wants.
For instance I agree that pretty much anybody able to work and who wants to work can work at something whether that is self employment, odd jobbing, gathering aluminum cans to turn in for cash, greeter at Wal-mart, or harvesting lettuce. In a climate like our current one, however, there won't be enough of certain jobs available for everybody who qualifies for those jobs so many people will have to take whatever they can get. And, as you pointed out, many people simply have not qualified themselves to do many of the jobs that are out there.
But if we can get the Federal government to relinquish the reins and give them back to the people through elimination of
unnecessary regulation,
unnecessary taxes, and
unnecessary restrictions, meaning the Federal government gives up a lot of its sacred cows, the American people will start creating jobs that will result in more jobs, and everybody who wants a decent job can have one. Keynesian economics has failed. It is time to turn it back over to the free market, laizzez faire system.