Czernobog
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Your deflection notwithstanding, it is irrelevant what the PD is attempting as a departmental policy. When a person suggests to a rape victim that the reason she was raped was because her shorts were too short, that is blaming the victim. And you're attempt to minimize his actions by "admitting" that he "poorly chose his words", is no different than justfying things like the riot at WVU a couple of weeks ago by reporting that they "got a little raucus".Really? So in my hypothetical scenario above, you don't think your thoughtless words could possibly have a negative impact on a rape victim's self image? Blame is telling the rape victim she brought the rape on herself, and it doesn't matter who is doing the blaming; it will have a negative effect on the victim. In fact, if that stupid attitude is coming from the right people, at the right time (ie. from some dumbass in the ER, while she is being checked out), it could so demoralize her that she doesn't even press charges. So, yeah...I guess it can have the effect of "reducing the guy's sentence", since it can result in the guy not even being charged, let alone convicted.Except it is the way the cop said it that turns what he said from "warning women about this guy" to blaming the girl because of her clothing options. That's what you don't get. It doesn't matter what you intended. what matters is what you did.I agree you are so fucking stupid.
From the article:
“simply pointing out that as part of a pattern involving one or men that the assailant(s) have targeted women wearing skirts.”
vs.
“He pointed at my outfit and said, ‘Don’t you think your shorts are a little short?’”
The cop was wrong in the WAY he said it, the police are not wrong in warning women about this guy. AND AGAIN, they are not blaming anyone.
You are fucking dolt.
"Well, if you weren't acting like such a drunken whore..."
Your intention may have been to warn about making dangerous behavioral decisions. But what you did was blame the girl. It is all about what is actually said, and how. Perception is everything.
True "blame" does not occur until the prosecutor or the judge decide to let the guy off or reduce his sentence because the woman was "asking for it". I have yet to see a modern case that uses that logic, with exceptions for local yokel courts protecting their kin or friends.
Your PC screed notwithstanding, The Police officer worded himself poorly, however the PD itself is still right in warning people of this perp's MO, and is in no way condoning his activity or blaming the victims, actual or potential.
The simple truth is that in this area, and until this guy is caught, people wearing short skirts or short whatever are probably at higher risk of being assaulted by this guy.
No, he didn't "choose his words poorly"; he blamed the victim. Call it what it was.