NATO AIR
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I think this advice is very good and can only hope FC2 Paredes takes it.
http://www.indepundit.com/archive2/2004/12/an_open_letter.html
An Open Letter to Pablo ParedesPablo,
I hope you dont mind if I dispense with the military BS and address you informally. After all, you just took off your uniform and refused to go on deployment, so I doubt that military courtesy would make much of an impression on you.
Youve just made a very critical decision, possibly the most important one of your young life. You decided to abandon a commitment that you made four and a half years ago by refusing to go on a six-month deployment to the Arabian Gulf on the amphibious assault ship USS Bonhomme Richard. In doing so, you claim that youre taking a stand against a war you believe to be unjustified. Im sure that making such a statement makes you feel like a man.
OK then, lets talk man to man.
In the big scheme of things, your action will have no impact on the war. The Bonhomme Richard sailed out of San Diego on Monday, along with her entire battle group. Your attempted desertion may have caused a media stir, but you did not delay the battle groups departure by so much as a minute. The embarked Marines are on their way to the Sandbox, to perform the mission that they were trained to do.
You did, however, manage to fuck up your own future. As Im sure youre aware, the Navy isnt just going to let you go easily. Theyre going to put you on trial for desertion. You will probably end up spending a year or longer in military prison, doing hard labor. And how do you think your fellow prisoners will respond to you? Do you think theyll respect your decision to shirk your duty? Of course, you will also be reduced in rank to E-1, forfeit all of your pay, be dishonorably discharged, and lose eligibility for the GI bill and any veterans benefits you might have otherwise claimed.
To your credit, youve stood up before the cameras and said that you are prepared to accept the consequences for your actions. Well see about that.
Did your new friends at Veterans for Peace and the (deceptively named) San Diego Military Counseling Project tell you the rest of the story? Did they mention that even after you are released from the brig, you would have a permanent federal criminal record as a convicted felon? How do you think that will look when you try to apply for work? What employer would want to hire someone who refuses to honor his commitments? You also told the reporters that your wife is behind you 1,000 percent. How long do you think she will stick around, when you cant get a decent job?
A mans word is his bond, Pedro and yours just dropped to junk status.
And for what? We still havent heard what this dramatic statement is that you are trying to make. War is bad? Im a veteran tell me something I didnt already know. Enlighten the rest of us: what is so gawdawful important, that its worth screwing up your life like this?
But lets put your personal considerations aside for the moment. After all, a martyr cares nothing for his own life. That is how you see yourself, isnt it?
When you were planning your dramatic statement, did you think for a minute about how this would affect your shipmates? You are a fire control technician on the Sea Sparrow surface-to-air missile system. The Navy doesnt have a bunch of spare FCs sitting in cold storage. Your ship is going to the Arabian Gulf, and will have to pass through the threat arcs of Irans Silkworm anti-ship missiles and in case you havent noticed, were not exactly buddy-buddy with the mullahs these days. The Sea Sparrow is a critical point-defense system for your ship. So your job isnt one that the Navy can afford to shrug off somebody else is going to have to do it.
One of two things is going to happen. Either your shipmates are going to have to pull extra shifts to cover for your absence, or more likely somebody from another ship is going to get emergency orders to take your place in the coming days. Maybe that person is married; maybe he even has kids.
And you pulled this little stunt just in time for Christmas.
No man is an island, Pedro. Your actions will have consequences far beyond what you intended. Did you think about that? Is all of this really worth screwing over your fellow sailors? Are you really so self-absorbed? What part of "One Team, One Fight" did you not understand?
The best that you can hope to achieve by continuing along the course you have chosen is for your life to become a cautionary tale a warning to others to avoid the siren call of blind self-righteousness.
But its not too late for you to end this nightmare.
Kick your new buddies out of the apartment. Shave your stubble. Put your uniform back on. Grab your ID out of the sock drawer. Call the duty officer. Turn yourself in. Take your lumps at Captains mast. Serve out the rest of your enlistment. After that, you can protest the war to your hearts content, with a clear conscience.
A real man keeps his commitments, Pedro.
Be a man and do your duty.
Regards,
SMASH