Really? Perhaps both of you can present some evidence to that.
Just Google "United Way scandal". They have been plagued with them.
Here's one:
Old Battles and New Challenges | The NonProfit Times
Another:
United Way posts executive salaries on website | WCNC.com Charlotte
Million dollar salaries.
United Way of Greater Topeka will dedicate more than 22 percent of donations made last year to administrative fees and pledge losses double the amount withheld from designated funds last year.
United Way withholds 22 percent from 2012 designations | CJOnline.com
I am the president of a local faith-based registered non-profit. Every single penny we receive goes directly to the people we are helping. Not many non-profits can say that.
We board member pay the overhead costs out of our own pockets, and none of us receive a salary.
We are not a national organization. We serve only the people of our immediate community, and that is what our donors like about it. They know exactly where every cent of their donations end up.