I am opposed to dictatorships, especially when they enforce values and concerns I lack.
Me too
A dictatorship is characterized by the fact that it violates it's own laws and constitution - independent of being a one man show, or run by a clique.
The original form of Fascism is an ideology that does not in-cooperate/behold religious or racial dogmas. It is therefore the parties organizational structure that prevents, needs to prevent the emergence of a dictatorship. Just like any other party should, who are constitutionally obliged/bound to prevent a dictatorship.
If a minority group/party such as Libs, anarchists and greens manipulate their ruling coalition in order to pass laws that only favor their convictions or only provide a further leverage towards controlling, manipulating, subjugating an opposition - then this is a clear dictatorship just as well. Since it disrespects, violates the will of the peoples (the constitution) who are in majority against certain laws and are not even asked about it - but laws simply instituted by the respective ruling coalition.
For a government to forbid segregated schools in regards to race and gender is IMO an absolute violation of peoples individual rights. It is up to the people to decide if their kids are to attend a mixed school, or a segregated school, a boy's or a girl's school or a gender mixed school. E.g. in Singapore it is entirely up to the parents to decide onto what kind of school they want their kids to attend. And Lib's&Co refer to Singapore as being a dictatorship and autocratic state because they severely punish drug abuse and drug trafficking.
It is a political parties right to forward ideas that might convince the population to opt sending their kids to mixed schools in majority. But not via instituting laws that enforce such a shift onto an entire populace. That's dictatorship at it's finest. Next they will institute laws that define which religion is to be taught at schools, how many hours and so on, and that every family needs to patronize or acquit towards homosexuality and it's children are mandated to join queer parades at minimum twice a year.
Fascism originates from Italy due to a logical reason - try to read up Garibaldi (an extremely interesting historic person) - a Republican - like the former Republics of Florence, Venice, Genoa, etc.
His revolution - guerrilla warfare, concluded into the formation of a new united nation - Italy, then run by a parliamentary monarchy after abolishing an absolute monarchy, manipulated by liberals towards chaos and anarchy from 1890 -1920's - resulted into the founding of fascism - Mussolini was a well read person, very familiar with all political ideologies and the works of famous sociopolitical philosophers. That he turned Italy into a dictatorship lies within the failure of the Fascist party to enact a respective constitution and to follow up on breaches/violations of such a constitution.