So you oppose a universal definition of what a human is, and leave it up to each individual based in their issues and conveniences? To me that’s unacceptable at any level of dealing with human life
But it's the only practical one, unless you want a world where health care professionals become Police Informants, and HIPAA is meaningless.
Red herring: We’re talking about what happens to the ones that attach
No, your definition was when sperm meets egg- that life begins at conception.
We know that once a sperm and egg unite, they create a unique human life with it's own DNA that is separate from the mother.
So which is it? Are all Zygotes people or not?
You can choose not to believe, go ahead.
Quite right. And if you try to make laws based on your fantastical delusions about the Imaginary Sky Man, you are going to get resistance from the Reality-Based part of society.
“If someone wants to x, they’ll find a way, so we might as well just make x legal”
What poor logic. Substitute other issues in there
1. If someone wants to murder, they’ll find a way, so we might as well just make murder legal
Here's the difference. There is universal agreement that murder is wrong. That's why murder laws work.
The reason why prohibition failed is a large chunk of the population didn't support it. (Even though it got added to the constitution, people had no idea that they were voting for all alcohol to be taken away. They thought they were voting against those dirty stinking Germans drinking in Taverns. )
When the government passed the Volstead Act, people were immediately finding ways to break it. Police refused to arrest people for drinking, courts refused to prosecute them, and the gangsters got rich. The only reason they got Al Capone in prison was that the guy didn't like to pay his taxes, because no one was going to convict him of bootlegging.
It took about 10 years, but everyone realized they had stepped in it and amended the constitution again. (Then hopefully had a nice, stiff drink afterwards.)
Now, let's apply that to abortion. We just need to look at what's happening now. Women in the states who have banned abortions aren't saying, "Oh, shucks, I guess I need to have this unwanted ankle-biter!" Heck, no, they are driving to states where abortion is still legal or they are secretly stashing
mifepristone and misoprostol. So you've only gotten part of what you want, and people are already figuring out ways around it.
So let's say you get your fantasy of a nation-wide abortion ban, even though you have a jury pool that is going to be at least 50% pro-Choice. Think you are going to get a conviction of a provider? How about a patient?