A soldier's farewell to his mum.

[Bootneck]

We all write that final letter to loved ones when we start a tour of combat duty, hoping that it will never be opened. For most of us it isn’t and we rip it up when we return. For others, it is the last thing a mother will hear from her son.

Rifleman Cyrus Thatcher was one of the unlucky ones. He was nineteen when he was killed by a bomb in Afghanistan seven weeks ago. His mother has released the letter to a British newspaper. Following are the words of a proud soldier and a young son.

Cyrus Thatcher was killed on 2 June 2009. This is the letter he wrote to be delivered to his family if he died:

Hello its me, this is gonna be hard for you to read but I write this knowing every time you thinks shits got to much for you to handle (so don't cry on it MUM!!) you can read this and hopefully it will help you all get through.
For a start SHIT I got hit!! Now Iv got that out the way I can say the things Iv hopefully made clear, or if I havent this should clear it all up for me. My hole life you'v all been there for me through thick and thin bit like a wedding through good and bad. Without you I believe I wouldn't have made it as far as I have. I died doing what I was born to do I was happy and felt great about myself although the army was sadly the ending of me it was also the making of me so please don't feel any hate toward it. One thing I no I never made clear to you all was I make jokes about my life starting in the Army. That's wrong VERY wrong my life began a LONG time before that (Obviously) but you get what I mean. All the times Iv tried to neglect the family get angry when you try teach me right from wrong wot I mean to say is I only realised that you were trying to help when I joined the army and without YOUR help I would have never had the BALLS, the GRIT and the damn right determination to crack on and do it. If I could have a wish in life it would to be able to say Iv gone and done things many would never try to do. And going to Afghan has fulfilled my dream ie my goal. Yes I am young wich as a parent must brake you heart but you must all somehow find the strength that I found to do something no matter how big the challenge. As Im writing this letter I can see you all crying and mornin my death but if I could have one wish in an "after life" it would be to stop your crying and continueing your dreams (as I did) because if I were watching only that would brake my heart. So dry your tears and put on a brave face for the rest of your friends and family who need you.
I want each and everyone of you to forfill a dream and at the end of it look at what you have done (completed) and feel the accomplishment and achievement I did only then will you understand how I felt when I passed away.
[To his brothers:] You are both amazing men and will continue to be throughout your lives you both deserve to be happy and fofill all of your dreams.
Dad – my idol, my friend, my best friend, my teacher, my coach, everything I ever succeeded in my life I owe to you and maybe a little bit of me! You are a great man and the perfect role model and the past two years of being in the army I noticed that and me and you have been on the best level we have ever been. I thank you for nothing because I no all you have given to me is not there to be thanked for its there because you did it cause you love me and that is my most proudest thing I could ever say.
Mum, where do I start with you!! For a start your perfect, your smell, your hugs, the way your life was dedicated to us boys and especially the way you cared each and every step us boys took. I love you, you were the reason I made it as far as I did you were the reason I was loved more than any child I no and that made me feel special.
Your all such great individuals and I hope somehow this letter will help you get through this shit time!! Just remember do NOT mourn my death as hard as this will seem, celebrate a great life that has had its ups and downs. I love you all more than you would ever no and in your own individual ways helped me get through it all. I wish you all the best with your dreams.
Remember chin up head down. With love Cyrus xxxx

'Hello mum, this is going to be hard for you to read ...' - Home News, UK - The Independent

Rest in peace Cyrus. You shall not be forgotten. Condolences to his family.

 

[del]

amen

 

[WillowTree]

I have something in my eye! RIP Cyrus!

 

[Bootneck]

I have something in my eye! RIP Cyrus!

Yeh. The room got kinda dusty for me too.

 

[strollingbones]

 

[random3434]

No words P, I can't see the keyboard very well.


RIP Brave Solider.

 

[Bootneck]

No words P, I can't see the keyboard very well.


RIP Brave Solider.

No words are necessary. Let this remind us all of the fallen heroes of all our countries. The Americans. The British. The Canadians...and others too. All who have lost young men
in this god foresaken land.

Bless 'em all.

 

[noose4]

very moving, a great loss.

 

[Bootneck]

I watched an interview with Cyrus Thatcher’s mother and father on TV this morning. Not being a parent myself, I can only imagine the pain the parents of this fallen soldier are feeling. I do believe, however, some of that pain will hopefully be alleviated by pride in having raised such an outstanding and noble young man.

It makes me feel ashamed that I don’t tell my family how much I love them often enough.


Why are they selling poppies, mummy?
Selling poppies in town today
The poppies, child are flowers of love
For the men who marched away
But, why have they chosen a poppy, mummy?
Why not a beautiful rose?
Because, my child, men fought and died
In the fields where poppies grow
But why are the poppies so red, mummy?
Why are the poppies so red?
Red is the colour of blood, my child
The blood our soldiers shed
The heart of the poppy is black, mummy
Why does it have to be black?
Black my child, is the symbol of grief
For the men who never came back
But, why mummy, are you crying so?
Your tears are giving you pain
My tears are my fears for you my child
For the world is forgetting again.

 

[Annie]

It takes very loving parents to raise such a loving son or daughter. Bootneck, you're so right, we should tell those we love how much we love them. I've a feeling this young man doesn't need us to worry about RIP, seems his peace was made before his end of time on this little blue ball.

 

[midcan5]

I bet mom would rather hug her son than this letter. Sad that so many die trying to bring sense to so many.

 

[Bootneck]

It takes very loving parents to raise such a loving son or daughter. Bootneck, you're so right, we should tell those we love how much we love them. I've a feeling this young man doesn't need us to worry about RIP, seems his peace was made before his end of time on this little blue ball.

Thanks Annie. I've got some catching-up to do!

 

[PixieStix]

I once heard a Soldier say this, in his grief

~Rest Now Warrior Brother!

Your Mission is Complete

Your Brothers will carry on~