That's an easy one.
If you don't like gay marriage, don't have one.
if you don't like abortion, don't have one of those, either.
The problem is, you don't want ANYONE to have them, even though it has NO effect on your life.
If it is so easy? Then why do you feel the need to force yoar agenda then?
Don't want to use someone's pronouns? Don't use them.
Don't want to eat meat, don't eat it.
Don't want to drive an ICE car, don't drive one.
Don't want to own a gun? Don't buy one.
Don't want to drink out of a plastic water bottles, styrofoam containers or straws? Don't use them.
Don't want to have a mandatory minimum sentence or put up a cash bail? Don't commit a crime.
Don't want to show your ID to vote? Don't vote.
Don't want a high capacity ammunition magazine? Don't buy one.
Don't like hate speech or non-PC speech? Don't read it or listen to it.
Don't like for-profit prisons? Don't commit a crime.
Don't like tobacco advertising or smoking rooms and areas? Don't smoke.
Don't like conversion therapy for minors? Don't send your kids there.
Don't like private health insurance? Don't use it.
The problem is, you don't want ANYONE to have them, even though it has NO effect on your life.
Now. . . I know. . you will make the claim, some of these have an effect on yoar life. But you see? Others feel the same about those things you listed as well. They feel gay marriage affects the over all culture, and when innocent lives are cut short in the womb, that too, affects the national culture.
It is not for you, to tell them their perceptions are wrong. And if you do? Then you are no more correct to tell me, when I tell you, that none of those thing I listed above, will affect you in anyway. If you just don't do any of those things and mind your own damn business.