In migration skippy not running from eminent death, which is a requirement for refugee status! Mexicans and Central Americans leave their family behind because they are migrant workers looking for better economic opportunities. The Jews running from Hitler, for example, either left as families or sent their children or wives if all couldn't go. The point is you don't leave anyone behind if you are truly a refugee!
You ever been a migrant, shortbus? Perhaps you should stick to topics with which you're familiar, like who's driving the clown car this week.

Regardless of the circumstances, a little research will tell that the men come first, regardless. The saying "better the devil you know" came about for a reason. You don't take your family into the unknown until the pathfinders have blazed a trail. It's common sense, a virtue seemingly lacking on the right.