No one wants discipline anymore. And that's fine. I just wonder what parents might say when schools are on a three-day-a-week teaching schedule because that's the only way they can retain teachers.
I thought of this today after reading the Pollyanna teachers talk about how if you just "love on students" (I cannot express how much I loathe the expression "love on"....ew) and "build relationships" with them that's all the discipline you need. Oh sure. Let's do that in real life. You speed through a red light, drunk, the cop comes to your house to "love on you" and "build relationships".
I know teachers are not cops and yes, we certainly can have healthy and productive relationships with our students. But in too many cases all notion of healthy respect is gone. Some kids--there's nothing wrong with them, they just need to know where the boundaries are. If you go round "building relationships" with them they have your number. We see this all over the adult world and kids are no different. Assume the best but structure and order your expectations clearly. "This far--no more."
But of course that's too much common sense for the 21st century.