You are SO right on this. I live near Miami University-Oxford, Ohio. You can see young men with flowers standing below a girls rooms in tears because she's broken up with him after so much neglect. He goes off with his buddies and there she is.... I hear it time after time.Bonnie said:I think it all comes down to making the effort to always let the supposedly most important person in your life know how desirable and important they are to you. It's natural for people to get to a certain level of comfort in any realtionship, however many get to a point at which they completely let the relationship die and THEN when their other half is looking in the direction of someone else who does make them feel wanted and desired that's when they finally take notice, and sometimes it's too late. Men in general seem to forget how to let their wives know how sexy they are even after being a mom or are tired because they have a hard week at the office. Women are gulity of this too.
If you stop watering the garden it dies.
And yes, women are VERY guilty of the same thing. We all find other things to do, become complacent.
And Avatar, no matter how sexy a woman appears, the only one she truly cares who thinks she's that way is her spouse. She wants to know that he desires her, not just because she's pretty, but because she has worth to him, that she is valued.