The love, attention and adulation from others
There's a danger in this one. With a major setback, this can be severely damaging to your perceived self-worth, and too often can lead to suicide.
From childhood, we naturally desire those things from those we respect and trust. Negative experiences damage and scar us.
Then as we go through adolescence and develop love attractions, unrequited love can damage us, or love that ends badly (affairs, divorce, etc.). I cringe when I hear things like "I can't live without him..." Major red flag.
The tough thing in life, and it's unavoidable, is we always put our self-esteem on the line when we risk rejection, in whatever we seek.
As Lecrae once said, “If you live for people's acceptance, you'll die from their rejection."
There's a danger in this one. With a major setback, this can be severely damaging to your perceived self-worth, and too often can lead to suicide.
From childhood, we naturally desire those things from those we respect and trust. Negative experiences damage and scar us.
Then as we go through adolescence and develop love attractions, unrequited love can damage us, or love that ends badly (affairs, divorce, etc.). I cringe when I hear things like "I can't live without him..." Major red flag.
The tough thing in life, and it's unavoidable, is we always put our self-esteem on the line when we risk rejection, in whatever we seek.
As Lecrae once said, “If you live for people's acceptance, you'll die from their rejection."