was waitress racist?

[koshergrl]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

Sounds like your girlfriend is a racist asshole. I'd dump her.

 

[Hossfly]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

Sounds like your girlfriend is a racist asshole. I'd dump her.

Nah, she's just a liberal Democreep venting her spleen. No biggie.

 

[koshergrl]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

Sounds like your girlfriend is a racist asshole. I'd dump her.

Nah, she's just a liberal Democreep venting her spleen. No biggie.

Same difference.

 

[Conservative65]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

 

[koshergrl]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

If you don't agree with them, you're racist, and if you don't say what they want you to say, you are engaging in hate speech.

It's the same progressive mantra as ever.

 

[Conservative65]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

If you don't agree with them, you're racist, and if you don't say what they want you to say, you are engaging in hate speech.

It's the same progressive mantra as ever.

I've had waiters/waitresses of a different color make mistakes on my bill. The thought that it was done due to racism never crossed my mind.

 

[Asclepias]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

 

[Conservative65]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

 

[Asclepias]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

 

[Conservative65]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

 

[Asclepias]

I have been having a difficult time with this one:

My gf is brown, and I am a white man. We were at a restaurant paying our bill. We split the cost of the meal but had different drinks. My drink was $2 more than hers. After giving our credits cards, we received our respective receipts, but we noticed that a mistake was made: my gf was charged with my more expensive drink, while I had her cheaper one on my bill.

After, my gf claimed that no one could mess such a simple thing up and that this was an act of racism, which she also described as a feeling she had about the white waitress and her tone. I didn't recognize this tone, but I can be aloof.

I said to my gf that it could also just have been an honest mistake, or perhaps there could be another reason for the mistake that is uncertain to us.

She became extremely upset by my insensitivity and yelled at me for two days. I am being as honest as I can with her; I didn't know if we could know that it was racism, but I now have accepted her feelings and instinct as the closest thing I have to the truth because she has felt subtle forms of racism like this in the past.

She ridiculed me for not immediately accepting her intuition as truth.

Any thoughts on this situation?

Thank you,
John

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

 

[Conservative65]

My thoughts are why do so many automatically assume racism when the other person happens to be white and they happen to be brown?

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

 

[Asclepias]

You sound like an idiot. Its the most logical thing to assume.

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

Yes you are a fucking idiot. Thats more than just my opinion. I'm happy you are not like me. If you were then I would be a cave chimp like you.

 

[bodecea]

One more thing young man. Wait for a girl who treats you like a king and never raises her voice while speaking to you (ever). ...

Indeed.

 

[bodecea]

One more thing young man. Wait for a girl who treats you like a king and never raises her voice while speaking to you (ever). ...

In the South, there are women who never raise their voice. I have a friend down the road who I've known for years and her voice is so soft you'd miss it if you weren't paying attention. I've never heard her raise her voice in my life. I remember a very close friend of mine whose son told me he had never heard his father raise his voice to his mother - (nor his mother raise her voice to his father I'm sure) it simply had never been done and as he was home schooled I'm guessing he may have told me that wondering if I had ever heard someone raising their voice at another person.
Unfortunately I have. And I find it extremely rude. People are not deaf. There is no justifiable excuse for shouting at another person. None.

I believe shouting is a learned behavior. Some people who shout learned it from their parents. If that is the case - it's a habit that must be broken.

"Bless your heart."

 

[Conservative65]

Only to a black who wants an excuse.

I've had black waiter/waitresses make mistakes on my bill. Should I assume it was racism? According to you, that's logical. An answer of no to my question means you believe only whites can be racist.

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

For it to be valid, they do.

No one has to tell me. It just is and based on your claims, I don't have to prove it, just say it. Accept it or not, I'm higher than you ever will be you big nosed monkey.

 

[Asclepias]

An excuse for what?

Black people dont have a history of being racist towards whites so I dont care what you assume. I'm talking about a Black person on the receiving end of racism idiot. Whites have a history of being racist and practicing racism.

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

For it to be valid, they do.

No one has to tell me. It just is and based on your claims, I don't have to prove it, just say it. Accept it or not, I'm higher than you ever will be you big nosed monkey.

Your opinion doesnt make if valid boy. You are of no consequence. When you want status I will give it to you. Untll then just accept what your betters have to say on the subject. Understand?

 

[Conservative65]

The inability to prove a claim of racism.

When you can prove the mistake was racism, do so. Since you can't, run along and eat some watermelon and fried chicken boy.

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

For it to be valid, they do.

No one has to tell me. It just is and based on your claims, I don't have to prove it, just say it. Accept it or not, I'm higher than you ever will be you big nosed monkey.

Your opinion doesnt make if valid boy. You are of no consequence. When you want status I will give it to you. Untll then just accept what your betters have to say on the subject. Understand?

Based on your mindset, it does. You said claims don't have to be proven. Now you say mine does.

There's nothing a dumb n*gger like you can give to me that I don't already have. Just accept that you will always be below me. Understand?

 

[Asclepias]

That was a pretty dumb answer. You claim someone is racist because you cant prove it? Youre a fucking idiot.

No one has to prove anything to you. Run along and eat some ticks and bananas cave monkey.

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

For it to be valid, they do.

No one has to tell me. It just is and based on your claims, I don't have to prove it, just say it. Accept it or not, I'm higher than you ever will be you big nosed monkey.

Your opinion doesnt make if valid boy. You are of no consequence. When you want status I will give it to you. Untll then just accept what your betters have to say on the subject. Understand?

Based on your mindset, it does. You said claims don't have to be proven. Now you say mine does.

There's nothing a dumb n*gger like you can give to me that I don't already have. Just accept that you will always be below me. Understand?

I didnt say your claims had to be proven. You are a joke no one takes seriously. Why would anyone need further proof you are an idiot?

I can give you credibility cave monkey. I wont do that until you straighten up your act and stop playing in your monkey crap.

 

[Conservative65]

If the person makes a claim, they have to prove it. Only to Liberals is the need to prove something not part of a claim.

Call me an idiot if you want. That's your opinion. At least I'm not like you you greasy n*gger.

Actually they dont. Who told you that you rated high enough to have someone prove something to you boy?

For it to be valid, they do.

No one has to tell me. It just is and based on your claims, I don't have to prove it, just say it. Accept it or not, I'm higher than you ever will be you big nosed monkey.

Your opinion doesnt make if valid boy. You are of no consequence. When you want status I will give it to you. Untll then just accept what your betters have to say on the subject. Understand?

Based on your mindset, it does. You said claims don't have to be proven. Now you say mine does.

There's nothing a dumb n*gger like you can give to me that I don't already have. Just accept that you will always be below me. Understand?

I didnt say your claims had to be proven. You are a joke no one takes seriously. Why would anyone need further proof you are an idiot?

I can give you credibility cave monkey. I wont do that until you straighten up your act and stop playing in your monkey crap.

You don't have the ability to give me anything n*gger. I have credibility whether your black ass exists or not.