Delta4Embassy
Gold Member
Inserting yourself into the private lives of others isn't healthy. Suggests your identity is completely wrapped up in others instead of yourself. Watching the threads and articles about various gay issues lately I'm struck by the thought of the average European of, "What's it matter?"
Have we in the US become so conditioned by reality tv shows to unduely care about other peoples' private lives that we don't see how trying to dictate others behaviour is simply not our business? The very same people who take an inordinate interest in my sexuality are also railing against government intrusion into their lives, invading their privacy and telling them what they can and can't do. Yet telling homosexuals what they can and can't do doesn't seem counterindicated to them.
Longer you try telling other people how they should live and love, the less time you're spending on your own issues. And anyone spending some part of every day concerning themselves with other people's lives has a lot of personal work needing to be done.
Have we in the US become so conditioned by reality tv shows to unduely care about other peoples' private lives that we don't see how trying to dictate others behaviour is simply not our business? The very same people who take an inordinate interest in my sexuality are also railing against government intrusion into their lives, invading their privacy and telling them what they can and can't do. Yet telling homosexuals what they can and can't do doesn't seem counterindicated to them.
Longer you try telling other people how they should live and love, the less time you're spending on your own issues. And anyone spending some part of every day concerning themselves with other people's lives has a lot of personal work needing to be done.