What her crime is, is none of our business. If he wants to stand by her, then good for him. He isn't asking advice about his marriage. He is asking if, in OUR opinion, would it be feasible or ok to the psych of his daughter that is 15 years old to see her mother in that situation. In short...he is torn. So he wants other opinions. I gave him mine. You guys gave yours. Knock off the berating the mother of the whys and wherefores. That is not the topic.