ChrisL
Diamond Member
I think that nowadays, sex on the first date is not unusual at all. In fact, it is expected sometimes.
I'd be reluctant to think of it as expected or obligatory so much as if after chatted and writing each other for some length of time things have gotten flirty and both wanna do stuff for real then that's what's going on. Otherwise why get together in person at all?
This is more applicable to the younger generations, late teens and early twenties.
Been here about 16 years now, have had (thinks) about half a dozen lovers in that time. All but the one I mentioned above were over 50. Like dem older womens what can I say. And we all had great sex first date. Best sex of my life in fact was with an older women who did something I'd never experienced before. So I'd say it's more an older person thing than younger.
What I've been reading says the younger folks aren't having sex as much at all as their parents do or did. Course it might be what they consider sex doesn't include things like oral.
What are you talking about? I am saying that sex on the first date is a young person, not an old person thing. It is common for young people to hook up nowadays with no expectations.
Why Millennials have sex with fewer partners than their parents did
Why is Generation Y having less sex? | Hannah Slapper
Study Find that Teens are Having Less Sex - The Millennial Legacy
3 sources from sequential years reporting the same trend.
Not true at all. Just look at college kids???? Hello?