For those who are trying to quit smoking and for those who have quit but are finding it difficult, this thread could be a source of encouragement and support.
I smoked for over 40 years. On New Year's eve of 2009, I was watching t.v. and every time I had the urge to have a cigarette, I would sniff the cigarettes but not light up. I was determined to quit smoking the following morning, New Years Day.
The next morning, I went out for coffee at a coffee shop rather than having coffee at home. I did this every day for several weeks in order to break the habit of having a cigarette with coffee. I quit drinking beer altogether at home for approximately three months since beer and cigarettes go hand in hand. I did not substitute the cigarette with food or sweets and lost weight because I had so much more energy to do things.
I am now off the cigarettes for almost four and a half years.
Great news! I quit "cold turkey" after smoking a pack to two packs for about 10 years. I was a practicing alcoholic and drug user from my early teens until I was about 25. I smoked heavily during that time. I finally went to AA and quit drinking but I kept smoking for several years after that. One day, I just decided to quit and I did.
You're right. You have to change the habits that surround the smoking. You have to make a determined decision that the moment you think of smoking you go and do something else. Keep the mind occupied on some task. Next thing you know you've forgotten about the cigarette and realize that you didn't die or fall over due to not have that smoke.
After a week or two it starts to get easy. Now, the thought of a cigarette almost makes me sick.