ConHog
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- Jun 4, 2010
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Tell that to the kid growing up poor, in crime ridden ares, and to parents who don't care about their social and academic development.
Yep, look no further than my kid's friend who is now living with us.
I will immodestly tell you that we are the only reason he even graduated high school. Neither of his parents did, he had 8 siblings none by the same 2 parents as himself. His dad is in prison for drugs, his mom is off doing whatever.
This kid had NOTHING, and no knowledge that there was anything better before he met my son when they were FR in high school. He honestly didn't know any better. He figured on dropping out of school and selling drugs like his dad when he turned 16. His mom neither knew nor cared where he was, let alone if he had done his homework or studied. He came out to the farm one day as a 14 y/o and had never even done a hard day's work. No one in his family was there to teach him how to drive, or to counsel him on not further ruining his life by getting a girl pregnant as a teenager. No family member was there to congratulate him when he actually passed all his classes for the first time in a school year, they just didn't care. They couldn't even be bothered to come to his graduation; but you know what? At the end of four years of being around us he changed , he knew that was wrong, he knows that an education is his best chance of beating the life his parents would have relegated him to.
Now what about the kids who aren't fortunate enough to meet someone who will take the time and yes spend the money to help them like we've helped this kid? Just screw them? It's their own fault for being born where they were?
That's a rare, lucky kid.
I'd slap the piss out of his mom and take all her kids from her if I could. She wouldn't let him move in with us when he was in HS because she was getting a check that would have stopped, but she damned sure didn't care if he was over eating my food and wearing clothes that I bought him every night. She's total garbage and the father and aint no better.
But the kid, he's a good sweet kid, he just didn't know any better. But once the ground rules were laid down and he adjusted to them he was fine. Now he actually IS living with us, him mom kicked him out the day he turned 18,he's chafing a little but no more than my own 18 y/o is, pretty common; but he has the foundation. Both of them are working full time jobs this summer, and both of them are attending college in the fall.
Hell, he's even talking about joining the national guard with my son. I'm truly proud of both of them.