Women seem to be more "detailed" in what they capture from every day living...I can be doing one thing and notice another thing....and I am also making a running grocery list in my head at the same time.
Matthew, does not see any of what I see....he's simpler!
I don't nag him, because he is hopeless, he just isn't wired to see the details, and never will be...he also falls asleep the minute his head hits the pillow and I have to keep a notepad near by to write down all the things I know needs to be done, in order for me to fall asleep and even then i wake a couple of times a night, but he's sleeping like a baby, no worries in the world.
When I tease him about it, he says, "why do I need to worry about anything, I have you to do such?" hahahahahaha.... rotten bastard!
Care
I write notes to both him and myself. He doesn't really mind, he usually gets everything done. We are both busy and we both just have to make time for stuff, it's easier if you work together.