Ravi
Diamond Member
I know a guy whose wife decided she was a lesbian after they were married about ten years. He got custody. I know another guy whose wife left him for a black guy....he got custody.Child support is paid by the non-custodial parent. Gender doesn't apply. Apparently, this guy is the non-custodial parent.
https://www.childsupport.ny.gov/dcse/non_custodial_parent_info.html
I think it is extremely lame to pretend that this has to do with gender.
I seriously doubt you have ever been involved in a custody case in which the father was truly the better parent and got fucked out of custody with your attitude. It is pretty much accepted as fact by ALL experts that our court system favors the woman whenever possible.
I'm not interested in hearing any more of your opinions on the matter if you deny that simple fact.
Sometimes people get shafted but not to the extent you whiners are pretending.
Woman often get custody simply because they are the main nurturer. IMO, the main nurturer should get custody no matter what gender they are.
In this instance we have a second hand story from G.T. and no idea if this guy is being totally honest, in fact I'd say he isn't since he claims his ex is bi-polar and she's never been diagnosed as such.