Ladies, Do you dig the Gray Hair on Men?

[BasicGreatGuy]

If that's a serious question, I'll give you a serious answer. Most men prefer younger women. Hence women getting facelifts, boob jobs, and lots of hair dying. Also, it takes a beautiful confident woman like Linda Evans to wear that silver hair.

My question was serious. In my opinion, men who are that shallow, aren't worthy of a lady to begin with. And at the same time, a lady should be secure in herself, and not focus on all the superficial aspects you mentioned. It is good to take care of one's self. However, if a man or woman takes action solely on the superficial whims and wants of another, they deserve the shallow relationship that comes with that kind of mentality. Nothing says I love and respect you as a person, as making the person you claim to love nothing more than a sex object.

I think a lot of ladies are just as superficial. I won't say most as I don't know that to be the case. Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster.

I think it is wrong of a man to hold any lady to a higher standard than he is willing to live himself. The converse is also true, in my opinion.

As to hair color, that is a preference. Nothing wrong with preferences. But when a person touts a preference as principle, I believe that is wrong.

I think a lot of it has to do with how a person 'carries' themself.

You just described 99.9% of the modern day hollywood celebrities.

A sad commentary.

 

[007]

My question was serious. In my opinion, men who are that shallow, aren't worthy of a lady to begin with. And at the same time, a lady should be secure in herself, and not focus on all the superficial aspects you mentioned. It is good to take care of one's self. However, if a man or woman takes action solely on the superficial whims and wants of another, they deserve the shallow relationship that comes with that kind of mentality. Nothing says I love and respect you as a person, as making the person you claim to love nothing more than a sex object.

I think a lot of ladies are just as superficial. I won't say most as I don't know that to be the case. Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster.

I think it is wrong of a man to hold any lady to a higher standard than he is willing to live himself. The converse is also true, in my opinion.

As to hair color, that is a preference. Nothing wrong with preferences. But when a person touts a preference as principle, I believe that is wrong.

I think a lot of it has to do with how a person 'carries' themself.

You just described 99.9% of the modern day hollywood celebrities.

A sad commentary.

Indeed.

 

[manu1959]

I think it's sexy as hell!





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what if the carpet matces the drapes............still sexy?

 

[goldcatt]

I think it's sexy as hell!





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what if the carpet matces the drapes............still sexy?

If you're already at that point, does it really matter?

 

[PoliticalChic]

My question was serious. In my opinion, men who are that shallow, aren't worthy of a lady to begin with. And at the same time, a lady should be secure in herself, and not focus on all the superficial aspects you mentioned. It is good to take care of one's self. However, if a man or woman takes action solely on the superficial whims and wants of another, they deserve the shallow relationship that comes with that kind of mentality. Nothing says I love and respect you as a person, as making the person you claim to love nothing more than a sex object.

I think a lot of ladies are just as superficial. I won't say most as I don't know that to be the case. Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster.

I think it is wrong of a man to hold any lady to a higher standard than he is willing to live himself. The converse is also true, in my opinion.

As to hair color, that is a preference. Nothing wrong with preferences. But when a person touts a preference as principle, I believe that is wrong.

I think a lot of it has to do with how a person 'carries' themself.

You just described 99.9% of the modern day hollywood celebrities.

A sad commentary.

Let's say that Jane and John are a couple and are intellectual equals and have tons in common and are very compatible. What is the harm in Jane going to the salon, having her hair dyed once a month and putting on makeup every day? What is the harm in John pumping iron three times a week at the gym? Aren't they somewhat obligated to "maintain" themselves to keep the physical aspects of their relationship interesting? I don't think this kind of consideration is shallow. I think it's an integral part of a lasting relationship.

 

[BasicGreatGuy]

You just described 99.9% of the modern day hollywood celebrities.

A sad commentary.

Let's say that Jane and John are a couple and are intellectual equals and have tons in common and are very compatible. What is the harm in Jane going to the salon, having her hair dyed once a month and putting on makeup every day? What is the harm in John pumping iron three times a week at the gym? Aren't they somewhat obligated to "maintain" themselves to keep the physical aspects of their relationship interesting? I don't think this kind of consideration is shallow. I think it's an integral part of a lasting relationship.

Read my words again. I did not state or infer what you appear to have extrapolated from my post.

"Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster."

If you read my previous post to the one you replied to, I make it very clear, that a person should take care of themself. Nothing wrong with that.

If you read my posts in context, they make sense.

 

[007]

I think it's sexy as hell!

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what if the carpet matces the drapes............still sexy?

Trim the carpet...

 

[PoliticalChic]

A sad commentary.

Let's say that Jane and John are a couple and are intellectual equals and have tons in common and are very compatible. What is the harm in Jane going to the salon, having her hair dyed once a month and putting on makeup every day? What is the harm in John pumping iron three times a week at the gym? Aren't they somewhat obligated to "maintain" themselves to keep the physical aspects of their relationship interesting? I don't think this kind of consideration is shallow. I think it's an integral part of a lasting relationship.

Read my words again. I did not state or infer what you appear to have extrapolated from my post.

"Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster."

If you read my previous post to the one you replied to, I make it very clear, that a person should take care of themself. Nothing wrong with that.

If you read my posts in context, they make sense.

Blame it on my insomnia...

 

[BasicGreatGuy]

Let's say that Jane and John are a couple and are intellectual equals and have tons in common and are very compatible. What is the harm in Jane going to the salon, having her hair dyed once a month and putting on makeup every day? What is the harm in John pumping iron three times a week at the gym? Aren't they somewhat obligated to "maintain" themselves to keep the physical aspects of their relationship interesting? I don't think this kind of consideration is shallow. I think it's an integral part of a lasting relationship.

Read my words again. I did not state or infer what you appear to have extrapolated from my post.

"Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster."

If you read my previous post to the one you replied to, I make it very clear, that a person should take care of themself. Nothing wrong with that.

If you read my posts in context, they make sense.

Blame it on my insomnia...

We all make mistakes at times.

 

[PoliticalChic]

Read my words again. I did not state or infer what you appear to have extrapolated from my post.

"Attraction plays a role in the relationship. That is only natural. But to have a relationship predicated on the physical, is a recipe for disaster."

If you read my previous post to the one you replied to, I make it very clear, that a person should take care of themself. Nothing wrong with that.

If you read my posts in context, they make sense.

Blame it on my insomnia...

We all make mistakes at times.

Who said anything about mistake? I said blame it on my insomnia.

 

[BasicGreatGuy]

Blame it on my insomnia...

We all make mistakes at times.

Who said anything about mistake? I said blame it on my insomnia.

Your attempt at subtle deflection failed.

 

[Terry]

I like grey hair but as for myself I don't really like seeing a few grey wild hairs on my head. I say either all grey or more grey then just a few sticking out therefore; I will be getting highlights for the 2nd time in my life next week.

Guy's always look better than women with a little grey. I like my husbands hair and he is almost all grey.

 

[Si modo]

I think it's sexy as hell!





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I adore Tim Gunn. Not only handsome and stylish, but full of class and has the perfect balance of being pleasant and assertive that he reeks adorable. Too bad he's gay.

Of the pics, I like Richard Gere - always have liked him - and Pierce Brosnan. The others are fine, but nothing that does much for me.

 

[Cold Fusion38]

You just described 99.9% of the modern day hollywood celebrities.

A sad commentary.

Let's say that Jane and John are a couple and are intellectual equals and have tons in common and are very compatible. What is the harm in Jane going to the salon, having her hair dyed once a month and putting on makeup every day? What is the harm in John pumping iron three times a week at the gym? Aren't they somewhat obligated to "maintain" themselves to keep the physical aspects of their relationship interesting? I don't think this kind of consideration is shallow. I think it's an integral part of a lasting relationship.

Well if the man has to get hair plugs and the woman has to get breast implants then that is a bit different in my book.

 

[Luissa]

I like grey hair but as for myself I don't really like seeing a few grey wild hairs on my head. I say either all grey or more grey then just a few sticking out therefore; I will be getting highlights for the 2nd time in my life next week.

Guy's always look better than women with a little grey. I like my husbands hair and he is almost all grey.

my mom has had grey hair forever, women are always telling her how pretty it is though.
I don't remember a time when she didn't have grey hair!

 

[Cold Fusion38]

I bet she tells you about the 20 hours of labor too huh?

 

[Luissa]

I bet she tells you about the 20 hours of labor too huh?

nope!
she had a c section, she does remind she got very sick afterwords. But after she saw my 27 hour labor and then c section she doesn't try to make me feel bad telling me about her's because she knows it was cake walk compared to mine.

 

[alan1]

Blame it on my insomnia...

Insomnia at 9:48pm EST?

 

[alan1]

I like grey hair but as for myself I don't really like seeing a few grey wild hairs on my head. I say either all grey or more grey then just a few sticking out therefore; I will be getting highlights for the 2nd time in my life next week.

Guy's always look better than women with a little grey. I like my husbands hair and he is almost all grey.

Yes we do.

 

[dink]

Oh heck yea I do....