My cousin Joan died last Friday. She was 57. She and Jimmy were married for nearly 30 years, had one daughter, Sarah, (adopted after failed infertility treatments), and Joan survived breast cancer about 15 years ago. She was dx'd with liver cancer earlier this year, went through treatment but it was a lost cause from the get go. She went into the hospital two weeks ago because her liver was shutting down. Sarah flew in from college Thursday and Joan died Friday night around 9pm. 14 hours later, Jimmy and Sarah went to Jimmy's niece's wedding. Sarah had a wonderful time dancing. WTF????? I get that everyone grieves differently and all but . . . . this just has me (and other family members) perplexed. Unless I hated the person who died I can't imagine going to a wedding, or even imagine wanting to go to a wedding, the day after that person died. And having a good time dancing.