"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?

[Stainmaster]

Oh no!!

What does it mean if you've never had "gay" sex????

We're doomed!!

Not so funny when a married person with children discovers they are gay, and comes out at an older age.

 

[random3434]

Oh no!!

What does it mean if you've never had "gay" sex????

We're doomed!!

Not so funny when a married person with children discovers they are gay, and comes out at an older age.

Stainmatters, I hate to break it to you, but anyone that is truly gay isn't going to "discover it" as an older adult. They've always known it, but have suppressed/hidden their true desires to try to fit into a society that doesn't accept them for who they are. Thus, so many gay men/women getting married/having children, then finally being brave enough to come out of the closet to who they really are.

Or, in the latest case of some GOP Politician, getting caught with a gay prostitute!

http://www.usmessageboard.com/current-events/116393-another-antigay-republican-caught.html

 

[Samson]

Not at all. The professional therapists would be involved on the scene. The parents would know what was happening and would be supportive. The initial awkwardness of sex could be resolved, and get the kids on the road to healthy sexuality as adults.

For years in Europe fathers took their sons to brothels for this reason. It looks like something that has been lost, and not modernized for the twenty first century.

This sounds like a service that the government should provide.

Do you have any evidence that European fathers taking their sons to brothels to "get kids on the road to healty sexuality as adults" actually worked?

Without empiricle data, I'd say it created men with dual, and nothing like "healthy sexuality" as husbands would frequent brothels for sex, leaving their wives at home to fend for themselves.

 

[Sherry]

Oh no!!

What does it mean if you've never had "gay" sex????

We're doomed!!

Not so funny when a married person with children discovers they are gay, and comes out at an older age.

I'll bet the children are relieved their parent didn't have gay sex and figure it out before they were conceived.

 

[Madeline]

I think we do have a problem. A couple hundred years ago people died at age 30, and marriage happened in the early teens. As the planet's culture has changed, sex education has not moved much. Teaching kids about sex is not enough, professional sex therapists should be used, if needed, to make sure teens know how everything works. A variety of programs could be offered from school, to church, to parents.

If we can clear up sexual hang-ups before one becomes a young adult it might have a significant impact on happiness and curtailing sex crimes. Remember about 17% of teens try suicide.

"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?

So you're sort of suggesting something similar to that scene in 'She's having a baby' when Kevin Bacon and Elizabeth McGovern are doing it and her parents are sitting at the end of the bed, Dad wearing a miner's helment with the light turned on, and dialog that goes something like...

Dad: Get your ass a bit higher, kid.
Mom: Oh, he knows what he's doing.
Dad: Clearly not.

And this should happen somewhere in early teens?

Not at all. The professional therapists would be involved on the scene. The parents would know what was happening and would be supportive. The initial awkwardness of sex could be resolved, and get the kids on the road to healthy sexuality as adults.

For years in Europe fathers took their sons to brothels for this reason. It looks like something that has been lost, and not modernized for the twenty first century.

Stainmaster, do you realize the irony of this post? Brothels are not staffed by animated dolls. The whores are real people, usually exploited -- how the fuck does a trip to a brothel teach a young person how to screw with passion or love or trust?

Men who learn to screw by buying a whore's time are more likely to learn to rape -- or knit mittens -- than they are to be any damned good in bed, at least if the chick's POV matters.

P.S. Most porn is also utter bullshit.

 

[chanel]

Not sure about the stats on this, but I imagine straight boys being butt fucked in middle school may be the number one cause of suicide.

Sick muthafucka.

 

[LuckyDan]

Not sure about the stats on this, but I imagine straight boys being butt fucked in middle school may be the number one cause of suicide.

Sick muthafucka.

But there would be professional therapists involved -on scene professional therapists. They would resolve the initial awkwardness. And, I presume, have plenty of ice packs on hand.

And don't forget that, for decades, 19th centruy British boarding schools were hotbeds of adolescent homosexual rape. This could be modernized for the 21st century. And parents would be supportive.

 

[PixieStix]

What a creepy thread.

It really is creepy. But from all I have seen about SM's posts, it is what we will get from him

 

[geauxtohell]

Here's a novel idea: teach reproduction where it should be taught: in biology class to 5th and 6th graders as part of the natural process of life. Include the relevant anatomy, endocrinology, microbiology, genetics, and health issues (for the appropriate levels).

De-mystify a natural process so that kids don't think that it's something other than what it is.

 

[CrusaderFrank]

"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?"

 

[Stainmaster]

"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?"

Actually it is possible. Even experts do not know all the influences of childhood, and how they effect us as adults. Sex is the most important motivator in most peoples lives, and we spend less effort explaining it than we do how to drive an automobile.

 

[eagleseven]

Sigmund Freud approves of this thread.

 

[CrusaderFrank]

"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?"

Actually it is possible. Even experts do not know all the influences of childhood, and how they effect us as adults. Sex is the most important motivator in most peoples lives, and we spend less effort explaining it than we do how to drive an automobile.

Have you talked to a trained therapist?

 

[Stainmaster]

"If a kid has not had straight & gay sex by the time they are 16 we have a problem?"

Actually it is possible. Even experts do not know all the influences of childhood, and how they effect us as adults. Sex is the most important motivator in most peoples lives, and we spend less effort explaining it than we do how to drive an automobile.

Have you talked to a trained therapist?

Actually, I know people with experience and degrees. I am only answering you because I want to see what kind of a come back you have. Human sexuality is a critical element to Maslow's pyramid of need theory. Let's see how you can do with Maslow.

From Wiki. Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a theory in psychology, proposed by Abraham Maslow in his 1943 paper A Theory of Human Motivation.[2] Maslow subsequently extended the idea to include his observations of humans' innate curiosity. His theories parallel many other theories of human Developmental psychology, all of which focus on describing the stages of growth in humans.

 

[chanel]

I believe love was one of Maslows "needs" as well. How about teaching that as a prerequisite to butt sex ed?

 

[Stainmaster]

This goal should be met by 16?? So when should they start.....12,13,14.....you're a dumb mother fucker.

At what age is puberty? That is nature's way of letting us know what time it is. If you have any teenage kids - get them to the therapist now.

 

[Stainmaster]

I think we do have a problem. A couple hundred years ago people died at age 30, and marriage happened in the early teens. As the planet's culture has changed, sex education has not moved much. Teaching kids about sex is not enough, professional sex therapists should be used, if needed, to make sure teens know how everything works. A variety of programs could be offered from school, to church, to parents.

It would be easier just to have everyone begin dieing at age 30.

After watching Logan's Run on Turner Classic, I might be inclined to agree with you. Our culture prefers to live in "fairy tales," such as those offered by education, government, religion, and the mass media instead of dealing with matters like sex or death in a straight-forward manner.

 

[Sherry]

This goal should be met by 16?? So when should they start.....12,13,14.....you're a dumb mother fucker.

At what age is puberty? That is nature's way of letting us know what time it is. If you have any teenage kids - get them to the therapist now.

Hey you twisted fucking pervert, leave my kids out of this.

 

[Stainmaster]

If we can clear up sexual hang-ups before one becomes a young adult it might have a significant impact on happiness and curtailing sex crimes.

It would also increase the teenage pregnancy rate, and the prevalence of sexually transmitted infections........

One would not want to cloud the issue of sex by bringing up the issue birth control. How are things over at Immaculate Corruption?????

 

[eagleseven]

Oh sooooooooooooo true. One would not want to cloud the issue of sex by bringing up the issue birth control. How are things over at Immaculate Corruption?????

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