That's just the way it is. Here's a quote that applies to your post:
"Those who would give up Essential Liberty to purchase a little Temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety."
Benjamin Franklin
The the R&D for the vaccines I received as a child and greatly increased the probability I would live to adulthood were funded by government. I went to schools paid for by government and had by undergraduate and graduate degrees largely financed by government. My first business loan and home loan were courtesy of government. The roads I drive on, ship my goods and services on, are there due to government. The financial system that has enriched me is protected and guaranteed by government. My family didn't have to go into bankruptcy when my aged mother died from a prolonged and very costly illness because of government. I am communicating to you now based on R&D originally picked up by government.
Now tell me, would Franklin say I have gained or given up my liberty?